8 mintue partner

40 M - Looking for a kayak hookup

2020.08.06 23:31 Scruffy_Buddha 40 M - Looking for a kayak hookup

Looking for kayak partner. I'm located in South Jersey, 15 mintues from Philly.
I own a recreational and very cheap kayak. So I can't really do rough or fast moving water.
Male or female, I don't care. Would prefer someone in my age range but all are welcome. Thanks.
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2020.07.12 20:59 snorkel4u How to make sex-neutral wife with Low Libido more SEX-ACTIVE and interested in more frequent sex!

TL;DR below

Me (39M) and my partner (36F) have known each other for 15 years now. Had a super active sex life during the courtship days and early days into the relationship. Phone sex, sexting, oral, different positions we did it all. But never ventured into nudes, sex tapes or porn. I don't suffer from ED or premature ejacluation etc but the average intercourse time was limited to few mintues. So we improvised and indulged in a lot of foreplay. I used desnsitizing gels and that helped. Tried alcohol but don't recollect it yielding in an totally wonderful feeling. We now have kids. Amazing family! Lots of love and affection and everything good that you can imagine. Things become not so great when we step in the bedroom. Until this year sex life was literally dead since last few years. I guess our second child was just perfect timing, one night of sex and she conceived. Recently I tried 420 coupled with sex and it boosted my libido extremely. I could go on like a porn star. More than anything else the senses were heightened and the pleasure was like never before. As all say - since then, weedless sex was dull sex for me. Last year, one night I initiated talks with my partner myself and tried to CPR the dying sex life in the relationship. This year I introduced her into 420 and she tried and few nights we did have crazy long sessions or amazing oral. I could sustain a BJ for 20 mins which earlier I couldn't. I could control my excitement so very well and helped her climax. I'll admit I sincerely made best efforts to help her reach climax. Did them in hope that she gets hooked on to more frequent sex. I tried toys and cock rings, vibrators for her etc. her answer to a vibrator was she would prefer me to be inside her than a toy. But for me to be able to keep going on 420 was the solution.

Anyways coming to the main issue - I wanted to try other newer things for e.g. doing it with lights on (yes, in 15 years we did it very few times), do it while watching porn, try on some role plays, make a sex tape or just watch ourselves live on the TV while we make out, slutty clothing etc. But I would like to know how to even start a healthy conversation around bringing this topic up. I feel like we are sex shy couple. Will give you an accurate recent example. I was high on couch watching TV and texted her - Come out quick coz I wanna eat you so bad. She came out and few mintures into we started, I casually asked her - what more can we do to improve our sex life. (later realized bad choice of words - should have asked - what else kinky can we try etc). She totally flipped!!! She blurted - what else more do you want. I am trying as much as I can but this is just too much sex in a very short time. (in hindsight in 6 months of 2020 we had more sex than in last 4-5 years). Needless to say that killed the mood and since then I don't even want to make out with her. I rather smoke up, watch some porn, use the fleshlight and cum. I would admit the thought has crossed my mind to have a one night stand or try some dating apps or just use any other channels to satisfy but when I am sober those thoughts go away. I wish we were more open about our sexual personalities even if they are poles apart. At least we would know each other a little bit more. But the fear is what if she doesn't like or hate that I even have such thoughts. I'll admit I have thought about 3somes, indulging in swinging or trying out new partners. There is this theory which has been engraved in me - humans beings being social animals, bring a man and woman together, they will be great for a while but then eventually you'll get bored (when it comes to sex). That's when talks begin of spicing up the sex life. Some go ahead and explore poly amory or other means. In my mind I believe its human nature to have an urge to find multiple mates for the sole purpose of sex. Would like to clarify I am not talking about an affair or cheating on. But I am referring to exploring new partners for sex. But again that's just a thought in my head. I never discussed it with my partner or any friend or counsellor etc.

So I ask any one else who had a similar situation in their lives and how they went about getting over it?

TL;DR - After 15 years of being together and slowly diminishing sex life, I realized I am highly sex active. Thankfully not a nymph but. My partner likes sex but not to the extent I do. We both now acknowledge the fact her libido ain't that high as mine. Difficult part is accepting this fact. More for I. Last year I was introduced to 420 and when I mixed 420 with sex the effect was mindblowing !!! I instantly got hooked! Tried to get her introduced into it, she tried but again very passive about it. I tried getting her into porn but she detests it. Tried getting her into toys and she detests it. I have fantasises and fetishes she isn't keen in. Tried discussing it with her as adults do but I guess this is the pain point. We both suck at being honest and 100% transparent when it comes to sex and sexuality and sexual personalities. What I know for a fact is even after 15 years she expects a lot of MUSH and expressiveness. For me, after 15 years of companionship its very difficult to do the things during courtship days or "falling head over heals acts". Its more about companionship and knowing each other to the core now. Would like to know what do I do to keep both of us happy and sex crazed and content. I am not sex starved but again not content and full. I feel I can achieve more pleasures and peaks and by every passing day the urge to explore them increases. Recently a creeping fear of what if this makes me stray from the relationship and then the guilt trip and all.
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2020.07.12 20:45 snorkel4u High libido sex-active BF with average libido sex-neutral GF of 15 years

TL;DR - below

Me (39M) and my partner (36F) have known each other for 15 years now. Had a super active sex life during the courtship days and early days into the relationship. Phone sex, sexting, oral, different positions we did it all. But never ventured into nudes, sex tapes or porn. I don't suffer from ED or premature ejacluation etc but the average intercourse time was limited to few mintues. So we improvised and indulged in a lot of foreplay. I used desnsitizing gels and that helped. Tried alcohol but don't recollect it yielding in an totally wonderful feeling. We now have kids. Amazing family! Lots of love and affection and everything good that you can imagine. Things become not so great when we step in the bedroom. Until this year sex life was literally dead since last few years. I guess our second child was just perfect timing, one night of sex and she conceived. Recently I tried 420 coupled with sex and it boosted my libido extremely. I could go on like a porn star. More than anything else the senses were heightened and the pleasure was like never before. As all say - since then, weedless sex was dull sex for me. Last year, one night I initiated talks with my partner myself and tried to CPR the dying sex life in the relationship. This year I introduced her into 420 and she tried and few nights we did have crazy long sessions or amazing oral. I could sustain a BJ for 20 mins which earlier I couldn't. I could control my excitement so very well and helped her climax. I'll admit I sincerely made best efforts to help her reach climax. Did them in hope that she gets hooked on to more frequent sex. I tried toys and cock rings, vibrators for her etc. her answer to a vibrator was she would prefer me to be inside her than a toy. But for me to be able to keep going on 420 was the solution.

Anyways coming to the main issue - I wanted to try other newer things for e.g. doing it with lights on (yes, in 15 years we did it very few times), do it while watching porn, try on some role plays, make a sex tape or just watch ourselves live on the TV while we make out, slutty clothing etc. But I would like to know how to even start a healthy conversation around bringing this topic up. I feel like we are sex shy couple. Will give you an accurate recent example. I was high on couch watching TV and texted her - Come out quick coz I wanna eat you so bad. She came out and few mintures into we started, I casually asked her - what more can we do to improve our sex life. (later realized bad choice of words - should have asked - what else kinky can we try etc). She totally flipped!!! She blurted - what else more do you want. I am trying as much as I can but this is just too much sex in a very short time. (in hindsight in 6 months of 2020 we had more sex than in last 4-5 years). Needless to say that killed the mood and since then I don't even want to make out with her. I rather smoke up, watch some porn, use the fleshlight and cum. I would admit the thought has crossed my mind to have a one night stand or try some dating apps or just use any other channels to satisfy but when I am sober those thoughts go away. I wish we were more open about our sexual personalities even if they are poles apart. At least we would know each other a little bit more. But the fear is what if she doesn't like or hate that I even have such thoughts. I'll admit I have thought about 3somes, indulging in swinging or trying out new partners. There is this theory which has been engraved in me - humans beings being social animals, bring a man and woman together, they will be great for a while but then eventually you'll get bored (when it comes to sex). That's when talks begin of spicing up the sex life. Some go ahead and explore poly amory or other means. In my mind I believe its human nature to have an urge to find multiple mates for the sole purpose of sex. Would like to clarify I am not talking about an affair or cheating on. But I am referring to exploring new partners for sex. But again that's just a thought in my head. I never discussed it with my partner or any friend or counsellor etc.

So I ask any one else who had a similar situation in their lives and how they went about getting over it?

TL;DR - After 15 years of being together and slowly diminishing sex life, I realized I am highly sex active. Thankfully not a nymph but. My partner likes sex but not to the extent I do. We both now acknowledge the fact her libido ain't that high as mine. Difficult part is accepting this fact. More for I. Last year I was introduced to 420 and when I mixed 420 with sex the effect was mindblowing !!! I instantly got hooked! Tried to get her introduced into it, she tried but again very passive about it. I tried getting her into porn but she detests it. Tried getting her into toys and she detests it. I have fantasises and fetishes she isn't keen in. Tried discussing it with her as adults do but I guess this is the pain point. We both suck at being honest and 100% transparent when it comes to sex and sexuality and sexual personalities. What I know for a fact is even after 15 years she expects a lot of MUSH and expressiveness. For me, after 15 years of companionship its very difficult to do the things during courtship days or "falling head over heals acts". Its more about companionship and knowing each other to the core now. Would like to know what do I do to keep both of us happy and sex crazed and content. I am not sex starved but again not content and full. I feel I can achieve more pleasures and peaks and by every passing day the urge to explore them increases. Recently a creeping fear of what if this makes me stray from the relationship and then the guilt trip and all.
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2020.04.21 21:27 JEClockwork decreased loading times and/or these other two ideas:

So, ive been wanting to play hunt more often but the one thing that has me hesistant to even play in quick play is the massive loading screen time going both ways.
Specially if its a bad session of just constantly dying for one reason or another.
Joined a hunt to be one clicked five minutes in? Gotta wait another nearly ten minutes to search for a new lobby, load into the new lobby. Get a good run going to only get ganked by grunts? Die and repeat...
Now i can understand the maps are massive to rendeload for every match but if there is a way to shorten that load time, they need to work on it.
Now the other two suggestions, i know im already going to get roasted for right off the bat, but its the internet so, here ya go anyway:
Ai partners: Now, ive seen how this game's Ai has been improving lately and I think there should be some consideration for players that dont really have the social circles or massive friends list to invite to join a game.
So, i think there should be a system that allows would be solos the OPTION to "hire" Ai partners to join them on a hunt.
Either they can be from the recuritment page or from one from your hunter roster.
Now either version of this shouldn't be free for balancing reasons.
Like any coin earned during the hunt is divided up so the player only gets a reduced income. It depends on how many you "hire" if you run with one ai, the reward is split in half and so on if you run with two.
But on the flipside you are not alone when trying to go for that bounty and-
"This is supposed to be a brutal pvp game with only player hunters, there is no need for this useless AI bs! Just play and get gud pansy!"
And watch as the player participation count declines as new players rage away from playing because there are many that just have crappy luck at games like this and who also cant really sit around for 15+ mintues to find a good game.
So, i think we need to find a solution to at least shorten the load time or give the OPTION for struggling players a hand up with taking more than one hunter out when playing alone. the training missions is a good touch but you get too used to shooting grunts (and etc.) At a leisurely pace.
An attetion to this suggested system is a lvl cap availability, once you reach a certain level, you can't take ai hunters out with you anymore.
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2020.03.17 19:43 Iwantrounderstand Surgey has been postponed and losing hope.

Hey everyone! I could really use some help.
My partner's (25M) microdiscectomy surgey was supposed to go down next week but has since been delayed indefinitely due to virus.
He's in a great deal of pain and cant sit, stand, or lie down for more than a few mintues in each position without serve pain. He's had months of pt, shots, every pain killer you can think of, lost weight, the works essentially to no avail. Surgey was all he had going for him at the moment and now thats up in the air. He's also been super depressed and this new news is only making things worse. He's pretty fried mentally from the last few months of dealing with this and is feeling crushed and hopeless.
Is there any tips and tricks or suggestions to help alleviate the pain that have worked for ya'll? We've tried the usual ice packs and heat, and some basic stretches. But those really only help for a few minutes.
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2019.12.27 02:16 horrorhelpsmydreams Something Else, Part 27

The bar we went to was in a more upscale part of Hell. There were two lines to get in, one wrapping around the street, and one that was significantly shorter. Melc ignored both, walking through the front doors without stopping. The bouncer tried to grab me, but I slipped out of his hands, leaving him wondering what had just happened.
The longer line were patrons of the bar. The shorter one was filled with informants being filtered into a private room. Several people called out in surprise when Melc walked by, and a tall Succubus behind one of the bars rushed out to try and cut us off.
"What exactly do you think you are doing?" She growled as she approached.
Melc ignored her, stepping around as she tried to block him. I sighed and ran interference.
"Hey, we're going to need a large carafe of strong coffee. Sugar and cream to go with. If this goes as badly as I think it will, I'll also need a rolled up newspaper to keep the hot heads in line."
The Succubus stared at me, but before she could do anything I patted her on the shoulder and hurried after Melc. The Succubus ran off to either get the coffee, or get backup.
Melc was currently facing down a pair of bouncers guarding the private room. I walked up just as one of them pushed a finger into Melc's chest. Even I had problems following what happened next. Melc had grabbed the offending finger, then twisted to the side. The bouncer went flying but the finger remained in Melc's hand. He handed it to the other demon then opened the door.
The room we entered had been set up for lap dances at some point. The walls still had benches, smelled of sex, and you could see where a pole had been installed. However, in the pole's place was a desk, and the couches had locked filing cabinets on and in front of them.
Behind the desk was Xisyla. She wore a business suit and had her hair pulled back into a no-nonsense bun. Across from her was an informant that was trying to beg an advance from her.
"Do I look like a bank?" She sneered. "Bring me information and get paid, we don't do advances here."
"Everyone knows you got the keys to the bank toots. You can let it slide for your old friend, can'tcha?"
She was about to reply when she looked up. She had frozen, staring, causing the informant to turn around. He looked like he was about to panic, but before he could react, Xisyla launched into action.
"Where the fuck have you been!" She shouted as she burst out of her chair. She didn't even bother walking around the desk, instead stepping onto and over it. "Nobody could find you, the whole fucking neighborhood was nuked! We couldn't even stop the layer shifts long enough to look for your body!"
"Well, I'm here now. Status report."
The informant tried sneaking past us, but Xisyla grabbed him. She was grinning as she did so.
"You want an advance? Ask the boss."
The demon pissed himself, gibbering excuses and apologies until Melc waved him away. As soon as Xisyla dropped him he ran.
"Xisyla, where are we at?" Melc ordered.
"We're not doing great, but we're not too bad off considering. I had to pull in favors like mad, luckily my sister owed me a Major Debt. She gave me space to work in and store things. As long as you don't mind a few racks.
We took our biggest hit about six months after you disappeared. Had a bunch of scroungers think they could take over. I had to use one of your emergency Debts to drop the hammer on them, but everyone fell into line after that. I've been focusing on saving up to get a better location since. We have more than enough if you were to go deal with it, but prices triple when one of my sibs or I try to get property."
Melc had been moving to take Xisyla's seat, but I had beaten him to it. As he frowned, a group of bouncers burst in the room with two Succubi, one of them the one from earlier. The one I didn't recognize spoke first.
"Cold depths, he's alive." She muttered.
"I told you Chrixta."
"It's almost been two years, no one thought he was returning." Chrixta snapped back. "And you, you owe me a bouncer."
I leaned over to see around the group to the Succubus bartender from earlier.
"Can I get that coffee now?"
The others finally acknowledged me, or realized I was there. The bartender took the opportunity to run off, hopefully for coffee. Xisyla and Chrixta eyed me, giving me a once over. Almost simultaneously their eyes widened and their gaze snapped to Melc. Xisyla turned white, then red, then white again. When Chrixta and the guards saw her struggling, they began slowly backing out of the room.
"You… you…" Xisyla tried to speak, but the words didn't seem to want to come out.
She screamed in rage, and attacked Melc. Chrixta and company backed out of the room quickly, and I sighed. Melc had the audacity to look surprised.
Succubi don't change much when they go into their true forms. Xisyla's claws lengthened, her teeth became fangs, and she became a bit taller, but not much else. To his credit, Melc tried to fight without changing, but eventually lost his temper and the room started growing dark. I let this go on for a few mintues, until Melc slammed Xisyla into some of the filing cabinets, exploding their contents over the room.
I had been letting my hair down while they fought, and using the pause, I snaked it over to the door and shut it. The combatants didn't notice this, too busy with one another. I took me standing up and grabbing the both of them with my hair.
I slammed them down onto the benches on either side of the room. I began speaking, not giving them time to shake off the shock.
"Hello. My name is Fær. I've partnered up with Melc to do a job. I've been stuck with him in the middle of nowhere for two years, and have yet to have an actually good cup of coffee since returning. I am going out there, and finding coffee. You two can continue to act like children while I'm gone, but keep the depths out of my way. Are we clear? Yes? Good."
I held onto them until I managed to extract myself from behind the desk and get to the door. Once I was there, I released them and quickly left the room. The sounds of fighting, verbal this time, came through the door muffled.
Chrixta and her guards stood on the other side, watching to see who came through. I sighed, rubbed my eyes, and greeted Chrixta.
"Good day, Chrixta was it?" She nodded begrudgingly. "Lovely, my name is Fær. Would you care to have a cup of coffee with me? It seems like the children will be awhile with their hissy fit."
She hesitated, looking me up and down. Then shrugged and led me to a nice quiet corner booth. I finally got to have a good, not sweetened with honey, cup of coffee. I know some people like it, but I never developed a taste for it. While we sat, we traded questions.
"So, how did you and Melc meet?"
"His informants found me, I do odd jobs and provide tours to remote locations for those who have the money. He tried to hire me and I initially refused, but eventually agreed for a lot of carma and equal standing. I don't do work as an underling. Been stuck with him for two years now."
"And when did you get married?"
"Well I learned that was what it was just this morning. One of the reasons over my initial refusal was the need for any kind of bond." I frowned. "He didn't want to be summoned for something inane, and the bond spell was his answer. Idiot. So, how did YOU get roped into this mess?"
Chrixta laughed.
"Xisyla's my clutch sister. She helped me get this place, so I owed her big. Everyone knows it, so refusing the request would have looked bad. Even when we all thought Melc was dead, you don't want to chance it."
"Mmm, that's why I don't do Deals. Far too messy. When I die, the bank can happily take my carma. I'm not about to leave a mess behind, chance someone trying to bring me back or some nonsense over an unpaid Debt."
I chatted with Chrixta, keeping an eye on the door to the room Melc and Xisyla were in. I even got her laughing, telling her stories about the various supposed safaris I had led, and tales about rich yuppies getting hurt.
I was in the middle of one of these tales when a very upset Xisyla came running out of the room. She ran past us, then through an employees only door. I turned back to Chrixta.
"So, what the depths was that all about."
Chrixta sneered, then sighed.
"She's been chasing him for a couple centuries at this point. He goes and finds someone useful, and she pouts for ages. I've told her time and again that she has no chance, but she doesn't listen. You should have seen her a few years ago when he hired this creepy Auditor. She kept showing up and getting wasted while bitching about it.
He's never done this before though. Hopefully the stupid bitch gets it through her head. Melc's old, and none of the old guys care about sex or romance. Well, they don't care about romance, some of them still have libidos after a few millennia.
On the one hand, I'd say he did it on purpose. But he seems as clueless as any rich old demon. They don't have any passion left, then act fucking surprised when someone else does. Then even more surprised when they poke at it, and it explodes at them. I better go make sure she doesn't trash the room she's staying in."
When she left, I wandered back over to the private room. Melc was gathering up the mess, trying to figure out the state of his affairs as he went. Xisyla's disk was on the desk.
"Well," I spoke up, "that went well."
"She finally quit, so yes."
"You could have just fired her."
"No, I couldn't. Her job with me was payment for a Deal. If I had known what she was planning at the time, I wouldn't have agreed to it. If I had realized how ballistic she would have gotten, I would have let her believe I got married to a shapeshifter ages ago. It appears even the Succubi have a prejudice against them. Are you going to stand there, or are you going to help?"
I had been considering helping him, but he seemed to think our return to Hell meant a return of the status quo. I went to the desk and sat down, leaving him to it.
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2019.11.26 01:14 Sealman123 Story 1

So this is my frist reddit post, I decided to make an account to share some stories after listening to /r for the better part of the afternoon.

Anyways onto the story: I'm a student at a SMC, Senior Military College, which mean I can not have a job during the school year, At this point I'm a rising sophomore and working at a grocery store as a deli clerk. I was on closing shifts most of the time, per my request. One night I was closing up with one of the deli managers in training, who I always enjoyed working with and has completed her training, and is manager at a different store. Anyways, I'm a white teenager, Important to the story later, and was sweeping later in the evening. I see a later walk by the deli, at the time she was on the phone, and I did not thinks she would be stopping by to get anything cut. A few minutes later, I hear a guy, also white, calls down to me from the sandwich counter, on the other end. I look over and he was asking if the sandwich part was closed, and if he could get one. I tell him we are still open, and go to put away the broom. As I lean it against the wall, the lady who was one the phone, pulls it away from her mouth, and the paraphrased conversation goes as such:
EC: Entiled Customer
Me

EC: Escuse me, who was here first?
Me: Ma'am I'm sorry but you where also on your cellphone. (Which she was still on, and remained on for the entire conversation).
EC:I was here first, now why did I not get service first?
Anyways onto the story: I'm a student at a SMC, Senior Military College, which mean I can not have a job during the school year, At this point I'm a rising sophomore and working at a grocery store as a deli clerk. I was on closing shifts most of the time, per my request. One night I was closing up with one of the deli managers in training, who I always enjoyed working with and has completed her training, and is manager at a diffrent store. Anyways, I'm a white teenager, Important to the story later, and was sweeping later in the evening. I see a later walk by the deli, at the time she was on the phone, and I did not thinks she would be stoping by to get anything cut. A few minutes later, I hear a guy, also white, calls down to me from the sandwich counter, on the other end. I look over and he was asking if the sandwich part was closed, and if he could get one. I tell him we are still open, and go to put away the broom. As I lean it against the wall, the lady who was one the phone, pulls it away from her mouth, and the paraphrased conversation goes as such:
EC: You have just ruined my entire day
Me: Ma'a, Im sorry, what can I get you?

Me: I'm not really sure ma'am, I believe he was.inue to apologize, and just try to get her order and finish the conversation. In the end she went to my manager, A great guy, who I have always respected, and my closing partner came out from the back, where she had gone to talk to her children for a few minutes. The manager comes by half an hour later, pissed off beacuse the customer had given him a twenty mintue talking to, starting with "That White boy back in the deli...." which lead into her entire speech that I did not serve her first beacuse she was black. I want to make this clear, I did not server her first for two reason: 1. I did not think she was getting anything, as I saw her walking between the barkery and deli section, which is attachted. 2. She was on her cellphone. So yeah, It was an intresting night, and Sorry for having to paraphrase, It has been about five or so months, and I don't recall all the details.
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2019.11.14 20:18 bearhatman69 NHL : Indianapolis Hooooters

NHL : Indianapolis Hooooters

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Update: 3/02
Resources : Franchise Tracker
Unlike recent seasons Indianapolis had not been tested on the road to the Stanley Cup. After a rough series against New Jersey and no rest into ECF some doubt was placed if Indy could get past a confident Tampa Bay team. The addition of Jonathan Huberdeau has recharged the Lighting's offense, leading the team with 12 points in 8 games in the postseason. Tampa would also get Victor Hedman back from injury to start the series, solidifying an already league's best defense. All of which are in front of one of the best goaltenders in the league Andrei Vasilevskiy, who can steal a series simply by himself. With Bergeron still out with back spasms and Linglet with his knee injury, Indy will have to rely on their youthful depth to push them past Tampa.
Game 1 - Even though Indy's postseason winning streak came to an end against NJ, Indy still had not lost a home postseason game since 2020. Oddly enough the last team to beat Indy at home was Tampa Bay in the 2020 ECF. Four years later, Tampa did it again! Huberdeau, would tally two goals in the first period, both past the weak glove of Ulanov. Indy's Andrew Payer scored on PP goal in the second period, but Steve Stamkos shut the door in the third period with a powerful wrister making the final 3-1.
Game 2 - Unfamiliar to Indy being down in series, the Hooooters hoped their veteran leadership would pull them back even. They go that answer from captain Pascal Blackburn and Andrew Payer. Blackburn started the scoring on a breakaway in the first period, and then adding a PP goal to end the period up 2-0. Indy continued the pressure in the second period, with two more goals from Payer and Dwyer. With the game at 4-0 in the third period, Tampa seemed content packing it up and head back home. For Indy the would score two more goals, confidently thinking they had Vasilevskiy figured out. Final 6-2.
Game 3 - With the series headed south, Indy needed to do something they hadn't done all year win a game in the state of Florida. During the year Indy dropped all 4 games in Florida being outscored 14-4 against the Panthers and Tampa Bay. Coach McFurrson decided to change their accommodations and routine when they arrived to Tampa Bay. Electing to stay out by the airport instead of their usual digs at the Westin by the water. Hopefully the longer drive to the arena would help them focus on the task at hand. Also coach decided to cancel the morning skates in attempt to soak up all the rest they could get.
A raucous crowd welcomed Indy to Amalie Arena, and became even more energized when Stamkos scored 3 minutes into the first period. As the period progressed Tampa found themselves in the penalty box regularly. Indy went on the powerplay five times in the first period, however Vasilevskiy was a brick wall. Indy outshot Tampa 28-6 after the first period, and would start the second period with 3 more PP opportunities. With Vasilevskiy standing on his head, Tampa's penalty kill fended off all 8 opportunities given to Indy. You could hear the frustration as Blackburn came back to the bench slamming the door after the last PP, even breaking his stick for good measure. To add to the frustration, Tampa would score late into the second period on a Victor Hedman point shot giving them a 2-0 advantage heading into the third period.
Indy kept peppering shots at Vasilevskiy, with Tampa going into a full defensive shell. The Hoooooters finally cracked a part of that shell, Paul Stastny made a great play back checking to steal the puck from Hedman. He would make a quick pass to Isiah Gionta creating a 2 v 1 break. Gionta would slide a pass through the sprawling Lighting defense and find Luis Preissing for a one time goal! Now on the board, Indy continued to press harder. As the clock dwindled down to the final seconds, Indy pulled Ulanov for the extra attacker. Andrew Gordon stepped on the ice and settled on the blue line waiting for the puck. A scrum behind the net ensued with the puck nestled between the boards and Hedman's skates. It was Stastny who came out with the puck, and whipped it around the boards finding Gordon. With 7 seconds left Gordon blasted a shot towards the net. Vasilevskiy had no idea where the puck was, Rodney Lindsay had set the a perfect screen in front of the goalie, allowing Gordon to beat the buzzer and tie the game! In overtime it didn't take long to settle the nervous Tampa crowd. Different from the rest of the game Tampa controlled overtime play. Four mintues in Tampa dumped the puck in deep into Indy's zone, Kucherov intercepted a pass from Gustavo Glass, and found Hedman at the point ready for a one timer. Ulanov knew instantly he reacted late to the Hedman shot, and stood still with the crowd erupting to the red light. Tampa went up 2-1 in the series thanks to Vasilevskiy's phenomenal 52 save performance (shot total 54 - 24).
Game 4 - Indy was still confident they could steal back home ice with a win in Game 4. They had 54 shots in the last game, and it took a outstanding performance from their goalie. They just needed to keep the pressure on. From the get go Indy kept that pressure on. In the first period, Blackburn created a turnover and set up a 2 v 1 rush with Dadonov. Driving to the net Dadonov deflected a hard pass from Blackburn past Vasilevskiy for the first goal of the game. Later in the first period, on a cycle play Ben O'Bryne found Andrew Payer in the middle slot for the second goal of the game. Indy would get a dagger goal on the powerplay late in the second period. Andrew Gordon rifled a pass cross ice to find John Dwyer who buried essentially a empty net goal. With a commanding 3-0 lead Indy methodically controlled the rest of the game, winning game 4 in dominate fashion 4-1.
Game 5- With a win in Tampa, Indy regained home ice which now becomes a best out of 3 series. Taking the confidence from Game 4's victory, Indy jumped all over Tampa again. Scoring 4 goals in the first period, highlighted by Gordon's end to end goal slicing through Tampa Bay's defense, and making Vasilevskiy look pedestrian on a excellent forehand backhand deke. By the second period, an uninterested Lighting squad went through the motions, trying to get on the plane back to Tampa as quickly as possible. Indy would add two more goals, blowing out Tampa 6-0, and taking the series advantage at 3-2.
Game 6 - High after Game 5's blowout, Indy received good news. Patrice Bergeron would be available to play in Game 6 even though he is still having back spasms. Bergeron would be in the starting lineup centering the top line with Blackburn and Dwyer. Bergeron's impact was felt immediately. Three minutes in, Bergeron led a 3 vs 2 rush, with Dwyer charging the middle of the ice it left Blackburn on the weak side open for a one timer. Vasilevskiy couldn't recreate magic from Game 3, and Indy went up 1-0. After a flurry of chances, it was Tampa's Evgeni Malkin who scored the next goal tying the game at 1-1 in the second period. It was Bergeron who would pop up on the score sheet again. With both teams changing lines, Bergeron decided to take Hedman one on one. From the left circle to the middle slot, Bergeron set up his wrister and put it top shelf past Vasilevskiy's blocker. Up 2-1 in the third period, Indy would tack on an insurance goal, another veteran getting into the mix. Paul Stastny found an open spot in the slot where he took a crisp pass from Lindsay and buried it short side on Vasilevskiy. Stastny came up huge when called upon, scoring his 3rd goal of the series and 5th point in the ECF. Tampa would score late with an extra attacker, but time was not on their side. Indy advances to the Stanley Cup again!
In the Stanley Cup final, Indy will face Dallas in a rematch of the 2022 finals. In the 2022 final, Dallas had a rough time with goaltending. Ben Bishop had struggled all post season, and decided to give Jaroslav Halak a shot to remedy the situation. It didn't end well for them though being swept by Indy. However this time they have the better goaltender in the former Indianapolis star Randy Mcallister. Dallas found its way to the final defeating Calgary in six games in the first round. They would endure a battle against division foe Winnipeg in seven games, and defeat Anaheim in six games in the WCF. Majority of the talk leading up to the final will be, can Mcallister end Indy's dominance, or will the Stars run dim.
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May begins in Indianapolis and the excitement in the city is in full throttle. Racers are in town for the 500, the Indianapolis Pacers competing in the NBA Playoffs, and the Hooooters are looking to continue their dynastic run. Coming into the playoffs Indy has won the past five Stanley Cups, and the previous two runs they swept their way to the cup. Winning 32 straight playoffs games, and seemingly no end in sight.
In the first round Indy promptly swept the Philadelphia Flyers. Chad Linglet led Indy with 5 points (4g, 1a) in the 4 games. In his first series in net, goalie Valeri Ulanov improved as the series went along. Ulanov squandered three goals in game 1, but only allowed two goals for the rest of the series. Indy moved on to the next round against the New Jersey Devils.
New Jersey entered the second round after finishing off Washington in six games. This was the seventh postseason meeting between New Jersey and Indy, and the first since 2016. Even though there is a eight year gap in the playoff meetings, these rivals kept the bad blood during the regular season. During the season, New Jersey and Indy were in 22 different fights, and countless scuffles after the whistle. The appointed referees in this series knew they would have a handful.
Game 1 Indianapolis handled New Jersey easily winning 6-1. By the third period with the game out of hand, the Devils decided to chip it up a notch. D Nikolas Weinhandl baited John Dwyer into a fight only to get his nose broken, and ferocious John Ast picked a fight with Dmetri Osipov. Kevin Hayes joined in and grappled with Brady Tamura. After the game tensions continued, Coach McFurrson called out the Devils for their immaturity during Game 1, and wanted Hayes suspended for "attacking" Tamura. In the following game, the physical play increased and highlighted by a series changing hit. Late in the first period, Dwyer had possession of the puck low on the right boards. Being held up by Weinhandl, Dwyer kicked the puck into middle. Chad Linglet recovered the loose puck and made a quick move towards the net. Converging on Linglet was Nico Hischier, with Linglet focused on the net, Hischier layed Linglet out. The hardest impact going towards Linglet's knee. Crumpled on the ice, Andrew Payer jumped Hischier only to end up fighting Ast who was protecting Hischier from retaliation.
Game 2 IND VS NJ
Linglet would leave the game and not return. Shortly after the hit, Indy defensman Gustavo Glass buried a point shot for the first goal of the game. After the first goal both teams had a hard time getting things going offensively. It seemed both were more intrigued by getting the next big hit. At the end of the second period hit totals were in the 40's. However, Taylor Hall would score in the third to tie the game. In the closing second of the third period, Ast would commit a slashing penalty on Pascal Blackburn. Indy would start overtime with their deadly powerplay. A minute in overtime, NJ comitted another penalty, tripping call from Hayes. Now 5 v 3, Indy closed Game 2 on a snipe from Andrew Payer.
The series headed to NJ, and the news on Linglet was not good. He would be out with a MCL sprain, missing this rest of this series and possibly the rest of the postseason. Down one of their main playmakers Indy wasn't fazed at first. They started Game 3 scoring back to back goals in the first period. NJ would answer back late in the period though, Ast and Hall scored 30 seconds apart. Continuing the trend, both teams would score two goals each in the second period. New Jersey focused on firing shots on Ulanov's glove side, finding that to be his weakest part of his game. It was working, and in the third period, Ast scored his second goal of the game going high glove giving the Devils their first lead of the series. In the third Indy looked gassed, not mustering any kind of chances. New Jersey added another goal making it 6-4, and would hold that lead. They ended Indy's remarkable winning streak at 38 games in a row.
Game 4 arrived and a hangover from the previous game seemed to doom NJ early on. Indy scored 3 goals in the first period, getting goals from the struggling Ben O'Bryne, and John Dwyer. Also got a goal from Paul Stasny who replaced Linglet in the lineup. Needing a jolt, NJ was able to bait Dwyer into a fight with Hayes. That was followed up by a 5 minute boarding, game misconduct call on Indy's Rodney Lindsay. Lindsay crushed Damon Severson into boards from behind, many of the NJ fans thought it was dirty and cheap retaliation for the Linglet hit. Severson was fine, and even helped the Devils score on the long PP making it 3-1 heading into the third period. The game shifted in the third, now it was a full on attack by the Devils, and their was nothing Indy could have done. NJ scored 5 goals in the third period, Ulanov seem to flop around like a fish in net trying his best to salvage a game that was lost. The series headed back to Indy tied at 2 a piece.
Despite having early period success in every game, Indy always seemed to run out of gas by the end of the game. Credit to NJ for their relentless checking. Game 5 back in Indy, the crowd was at full throat. They were delighted to a blowout. Similar to Game 1, Indy took control early and poured it on. Defeating NJ 7-0. Back to NJ for Game 6, Indy needed that same energy to close out the series.
Rookie Vyacheslav Dadonov helped keep that energy for Indianapolis. The big 6'3 center's game focused more on the defensive side of puck, so any kind of offense production was gladly appreciated. Ben O'Bryne started Game 6 with a power play goal, thanks to an across the ice pass from Dadonov. NJ tied the game shortly after with a Hall breakaway goal. Second period, Dadonov appeared again in the score sheet. The Indy forecheck created a turnover in the middle slot, Dadonov glided over to the loose puck and wildly backhanded the puck towards the net. Keith Kinkaid had trouble with the knuckling puck, and it would trickle off his shoulder and bounce behind the goal line. Unlike games 3 and 4, Indy seemed to get stronger in the third period, finally opposing their will on NJ. Mid third period Nico Hischier, landed another big hit. This time on Patrice Bergeron, and knocked him out of the game. Bergeron would complain about having back spasms after the game. At the late stages of the game six, Dadonov nailed the coffin for NJ, he added a empty goal after stealing the puck from Taylor Hall in the neutral zone.
Bruised and battered Indy prevailed in a tough series against NJ. Awaiting them in the Conference Final will be a fresh Tampa Bay Lighting team. Tampa Bay swept Columbus in the first round, and then followed that performance by sweeping the Buffalo Sabers. Coach McFurrson will retool his lines with Bergeron and Linglet out for the upcoming series. Dadonov will center the first line with Dwyer and Blackburn. The second line will remain untouched, but Stastny will lead the third line, and Isiah Gionta will take lead on the fourth line with rookies Lee Eichel and Luis Pressing.
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The Indianapolis Hooooters finished the year with a record of 58-18-7 for 123 points, edging the Arizona Coyotes for the Presidents Trophy. Indy's offensive prowess continued throughout the year, with 4 players averaging over a point per game (Blackburn, Dwyer, Linglet, Payer). That feat hasn't been done since the 2015 season.

2023-2024 Season Stats
Indy also had a record year on the powerplay, scoring on 40% of their opportunities eclipsing the long standing 1977-78 Montreal Canadiens 31.9% record. Andrew Payer feasted on the PP scoring 44 points with the man advantage. Other season notes Coach McFurrson was extremely pleased with the progress of Moroza, Dadonov, and Luis Preissing in their first full seasons. All three provided a physical presence, and Moroza found his scoring touch later in the year. McFurrson is also intrigued by newcomer LW Rodney Lindsay (75 ovr, med top6). At the trade deadline, Indy traded veteran Marcel Pavilkovsky to Detroit in exchange for Lindsay. The new left winger brings a little more height at 6'2, and a highly touted wrister according to scouts. McFurrson hopes Lindsay can be a consistent 25 goal scorer in the coming years. As Indy enters the playoffs, they hope captain Blackburn can continue his dominate play, but the key will be secondary scoring. Outside of the first line last year, and Kyle Crnkovic, Indy struggled to score relying heavily on Randy Mcallister. This year unproven goalie Valeri Ulanov may force Indy to ramp up the pressure.
In the east, New Jersey returns to the playoffs after getting big years from John Ast, Taylor Hall, and Nico Hischier. They are a throwback team, constructed to be like the "Broadway Bullies" some critics wonder if they have the stamina to keep fighting their way through teams. New Jersey has the toughest road in the playoffs. They'll get the ever dangerous Washington Capitals in the first round. If they win, they should get Indy in a second round showdown. Philadelphia returns to the postseason after a four year absence thanks to goalie Carter Hart. The Flyers were able to edge out rival Pittsburgh for the last wild card spot. Their reward will be a first round tilt against Indianapolis. The state of Florida will be hockey nuts in April, both the Lighting and Panthers made the postseason. Both teams relied heavily on their goal tending. Both took two games each against the Hooooters. Tampa will have a tough first round matchup against a tough Columbus team. Florida will take on Buffalo. Many analyst thought the young Sabres underachieved this year, and haven't looked like the team to take the East reigns from Indianapolis. Personally think CBJ and Buffalo will advance.
Out west, Arizona played strong all year too led by their elite first line combo of Micheal Molling, Clayton Keller, and Marian Salingova. Molling and Salingova tied with 101 points on the year, meanwhile Keller finished the year with 77 helpers and 87 total points. The Coyotes will face wild card Vegas in the first round. Vegas is not a team to play around with, they have struggled with injuries for most of the year. However, healthy as of late, Vegas closed the year winning 11 out of their last 15 games. Anaheim and Dallas steadily took care of business as division winners, and will be heavily favored in their first round matchups. Vancouver made the playoffs for the first time in eight years. After being yearly contenders from 2008 to 2015, Vancouver fans had a hard time with the long rebuild. They'll hope Elias Petterrsson, Micheal Stahle, and Brock Boeser line will be enough to carry them past Anaheim in the first round.

Scoring Leaders 2023-2024
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Entering the 2023-2024 season GM/Coach Gil McFurrson was optimistic his team could continue their storied run despite losing the franchise's leader in David Backes. What he did not expect was the offensive surge Indy displayed in the first 40 games of the year. In recent seasons, Indy relied on grinding opponents down with physical play, and defense to create offensive opportunities. It wasn't exciting hockey, but it produced results. This year Indy has played almost opposite, focusing on their speed to create opportunities. The biggest difference has been the hot start from Pascal Blackburn, and Chad Linglet. On the top line with John Dwyer, Blackburn and Linglet lead the team in points with 50. Their connection has been one of the deadliest one two combos in the league. Just behind them is Andrew Payer with 46 points (17g, 29a), who has shined with his new speedy linemates Ben O'Bryne and Kyle Crnkovic. In this offensive wave, Indy has averaged 3.6 goals per game, that's the highest since 2018, and Blackburn and Linglet have a good chance at leading the league in points. Either could be the first do so for the Hooooters since Vladimir Kron in 2012.
With the offense in full gear, the pressure on rookie Russian goalie Valeri Ulanov has been minimal. Due to that Ulanov has played confidently, leading the league with a 1.89 gaa, and has won coach McFurrson's full confidence in keeping him as the starting goaltender. Some of that credit goes to the guys in front on Ulanov. Brady Tamura now in his 5th season has turned into the elite two way defensemen many thought he would become. Tamura has flashed his offensive skills this year with 33 points (5g, 28a), and is on track for his career best point total this year. Rookie Gustavo Glass has been coming into his own, and becoming a good contrasting partner with Harvey Dyce. Dmetri Osipov and Jeff Tamer bring the hammer on the third D pair, and are strong PK killers.
Looking forward into the season, it's been rumored Kyle Crnkovic has been placed on the trading block. The young 21 year old speedy forward has played well since he was drafted by Indy in 2022. However, his potential has caught many GM's eyes around league, and with knowing McFurrson's love for big forwards, they are trying to prey on the 5'7 kid. Crnkovic's return could help Indy replenish a weaken forward group in the AHL, or possibly obtain a top 4 or at least a veteran OFD to pair better with either Osipov or Tamer.
As for the rest of the league, the biggest surprise has been the Florida Panthers. Currently tied for first in the Atlantic Division with Tampa Bay, the Panthers have relied on stellar goaltending from newcomer Juuse Saros. Indy has been in a tight battle with New Jersey and Washington this year. The Devils have had their own one two punch in John Ast and Taylor Hall, both have 48 points so far. Arizona has become a top contender in the West, Micheal Molling has led the charge for the Coyotes with 50 points. Individually, Vyacheslav Atonovich leads the league in points with 54 points (28g,26a), and closely behind him with 51 points (27g, 21a) has been the dangerous and quiet Micheal Stahle from Vancouver. The biggest free agent of the summer G Randy Mcallister has had a rough start to the year. Battling a groin injury, Mcallister has produced a 2.62 gaa, and .915 sv% so far this year. However, he has kept the Stars up top of the Central Division and another contender out west. The standings thru 40 games fall as below.

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It’s an end of an era. From the press room at Market Square Arena, a heartfelt David Backes announced his retirement from professional hockey.
“I had the pleasure of playing the NHL for 17 years…17 fun filled years with the best teammates and fans to share it with. I couldn’t ask more from a career like mine. However, my time has come to an end. My journey started with the St. Louis Blues organization which gave me a great foundation. Albeit short, I cannot thank them enough for my development, and the opportunities they gave me at the start of my career. In the summer of 2007, I was the first acquisition for the upstart Indianapolis franchise, and named captain shortly after at the age of 23. Admittedly, I thought coach McFurrson was in over his head. I wasn’t ready for that, surely a guy like Guerin who’s been there done that would best suited. However, I was indeed ready. Coach always knows. He knew which buttons to push, how to prepare us, but more importantly have the confidence in his players to get the job done. I can’t thank coach enough for bringing me to Indianapolis and having the honor of leading his team on the ice for 16 years. I’ve learned a lot about hockey and life from you, and I’ll miss our captain’s meetings the most…We’ve had a lot of talent come through here, and it’s been fun every year watching, learning, competing with the guys in that locker room. It’s already hard knowing I won’t be in the locker room….I wish you boys the best, maybe you can help an old man get a job here as a Zamboni driver or something…Lastly, I wanted to thank the fans here in St. Louis and Indianapolis. Your support has been unwavering. This past year was the toughest mentally and physically, but it was the fans that kept me going. At every community, charity, or camp event it was always fun to meet new fans or even catch up with long time fans who were family essentially. I’d love to hear the crowd one more time as we come on to the ice, but it’s time for the next group to shine. Thank you…”
David Backes finished his career with 1,390 total points with the Hooooters. Captaining 14 cups runs for the franchise, and collecting 5 Conn Smythe trophies. The team has already made plans to retire the number 42 during a ceremony later in the season.
Year Goals Assists Points
2008-2009 68 51 119
2009-2010 70 45 115
2010-2011 60 60 120
2011-2012 58 48 106
2012-2013 40 75 115
2013-2014 49 52 101
2014-2015 58 49 107
2015-2016 44 55 99
2016-2017 45 45 90
2017-2018 47 42 89
2018-2019 30 42 72
2019-2020 33 30 63
2020-2021 34 30 64
2021-2022 33 43 76
2022-2023 24 30 54

Other notable retirements, the serviceable Jay Bouwmeester called it quits. Corey Perry of the Ducks finished his career with 1,037 points. In Montreal, Patrick Marleau at the age of 43 retired with 1,210 career points, his teammate Shea Weber holstered his slapshot. A few big-name goalies retired such as Henrik Lundqvist at the age of 41, Corey Crawford, and Jimmy Howard. Both Dallas goalies Ben Bishop and Jaroslav Halak announced their retirements.
In the draft lottery, Minnesota claimed the first pick followed by Montreal, Carolina, Florida, and Boston to top five picks. Compared to recent drafts, this year’s entry draft was weaker in top talent and depth. Minnesota picked D man Joe Stamkos (80 ovr Med Elite) first overall. At 31 Indy’s first round pick was Jan Valicevic, a defenseman from Slovakia (63 Low Elite). GM/Coach McFurrson is most excited about their Mr. Irrelevant pick, C Matt Lalande (72, Med Elite). He’ll spend the year with the Kelowna Rockets, but McFurrson hopes he’ll be ready to the hit ice with Hooooters next season.
After the draft the resigning period and free agency started. Indianapolis resigned Pascal Blackburn (33) and John Dwyer (30) to deals that should keep them Indy for the rest of their careers. Indy would also match two offer sheets that were placed on Brady Tamura and Chad Linglet. Both will be signed for the next 4 years. The biggest free agent was goalie Randy Mcallister. Negotiations stalled very quickly, and it was made clear by his agent he was not coming back to Indy. At least 10 teams inquired Mcallister’s agent about a deal. Ultimately Mcallister met with Dallas, Vegas, Rangers, Detroit, Arizona, and Minnesota. After careful consideration, Dallas won Mcallister’s favor. He signed with the Stars at 9.230M for the next 7 years. Due to that Indianapolis would sign veteran goalie Marc Andre Fleury on a 2 year deal. Coach McFurrson will lean on Fleury to help mentor Indy’s inexperienced netminders.
Other notable free agent signings around the league were Pierre Gainey (91 ovr Med Elite LW) joining Chicago. He’ll join an already dynamic offense with Debrincat, Kane, and Pat Schnabel. The Blackhawks also added centerman Marcus Thorwalls (86 top 6 F high), they’ll lean on his 2 way ability to stop opponents top lines. Tampa Bay looked to shock their anemic attack. They added Jonathan Huberdeau on long term deal (5yr 7 mil), and then added Evgeni Malkin on a one year deal. Lastly, Mikko Rantanen joined the Washington Capitals for 7.5 mil for next 7 years. He’ll join the top line with Kuznetsov and Ovechkin.
Now with Backes gone, Indianapolis will have a different look out on the ice. Pascal Blackburn will now wear the C, and Gordon and Dwyer will wear the A’s. Some fans believe D Andrew Gordon should have received the C, after all they have nicknamed him “The Franchise”.
On the coaching staff, goalie coach H.G. Connor has put up the whistle. Connor was the goalie coach since the beginning in Indy, and has developed talented goalies like Markus Myllykoski, Simon Paul, and Randy Mcallister. Stepping in to replace Connor will be Karel Syrcha. Syrcha had a short stint in Indy, he was on the team from 2013 thru 2015. After which he played overseas until 2020. He was hired in 2022 to help mentor goalies in AHL Bridgeport. His relationship with Valeri Ulanov will be tested, as Ulanov is expected to start in goal for Indy this season.
A few rookies will appear in the lineup as well. Gustavo Glass (D 81 Low Elite) will be paired with Harvey Dyce on the blue line. Forwards Luis Preissing (79 Low Elite LW), and Isiah Gionta (75 C Low Top 6) crack the opening roster. The coaching staff hope Preissing (6'4) can help bring a missing physical presence. Goalie Valeria Ulanov (77 med starter), will start in net. He didn't have the best numbers in Bridgeport, but with a better defensive team in front he could have more success. On opening night, the Hooooters will have this lineup.

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2019.10.07 05:29 Skyeroxx Bleeding only after sex and masterbating

So I have been having spotting between my periods since I started birth control back in March I believe. Which I know is common but I feel by now it should have stopped. A little over a month ago I began having protected sex. During sex, it does hurt at times but is not super painful. It is a similar pain to when you put a tampon in wrong or take out a dry tampon. I figured this was normal for someone who has just started having sex. And after sex I do feel some discomfort inside. I read that it is possible for your partner to be a bit too large and that vaginas vary in length or depth. He's 6 inches I believe. Also we have been having sex at least 2 times a week, usually more tho, so I wonder if that's too much for my vagina since I've just started having sex. About 2 weeks ago, the condom slipped off and got stuck inside of me. However, after a few mintues my partner was able to get it out. Since then, I noticed that after sex and also after masterbation, there is a little blood. I notice when I'm going to the bathroom afterwards. There's no blood during sex. I should mention that when I masterbate I focus on my clit so I do not insert anything inside my vagina so to me the bleeding is strange. To me it would make more sense if I was inserting something like maybe there is a cut inside which I do not think is the case. These symptoms are only a more recent thing which is why I brought up the condom thing but I feel like that also isn't the problem. My period starts in 1 more week so I was wondering if this could just be irregular spotting or if there is a more serious problem that I shoud see a doctor? I have had spotting before like I mentioned since I started birth control. It starts usually 1 week before my period is supposed to begin. However, the spotting stays consistent for a couple of days. The bleeding I am experiencing now is just when I pee after I have sex or after I masterbate, then it stops. Also is this something I speak to my regular doctor about or do I have to look up a gynecologist? I would like to keep this from my parents unless I find out it is something serious. I am 19 but am under their insurance so I have no clue if discussions and visits with my doctor are confidential from them?
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2019.10.07 03:22 Skyeroxx Bleeding after sex and masterbation?

So I have been having spotting between my periods since I started birth control back in March I believe. Which I know is common but I feel by now it should have stopped. A little over a month ago I began having protected sex. During sex, it does hurt at times but is not super painful. It is a similar pain to when you put a tampon in wrong or take out a dry tampon. I figured this was normal for someone who has just started having sex. And after sex I do feel some discomfort inside. I read that it is possible for your partner to be a bit too large and that vaginas vary in length or depth. He's 6 inches I believe. Also we have been having sex at least 2 times a week, usually more tho, so I wonder if that's too much for my vagina since I've just started having sex. About 2 weeks ago, the condom slipped off and got stuck inside of me. However, after a few mintues my partner was able to get it out. Since then, I noticed that after sex and also after masterbation, there is a little blood. I notice when I'm going to the bathroom afterwards. There's no blood during sex. I should mention that when I masterbate I focus on my clit so I do not insert anything inside my vagina so to me the bleeding is strange. To me it would make more sense if I was inserting something like maybe there is a cut inside which I do not think is the case. These symptoms are only a more recent thing which is why I brought up the condom thing but I feel like that also isn't the problem. My period starts in 1 more week so I was wondering if this could just be irregular spotting or if there is a more serious problem that I shoud see a doctor? I have had spotting before like I mentioned since I started birth control. It starts usually 1 week before my period is supposed to begin. However, the spotting stays consistent for a couple of days. The bleeding I am experiencing now is just when I pee after I have sex or after I masterbate, then it stops. Also is this something I speak to my regular doctor about or do I have to look up a gynecologist? I would like to keep this from my parents unless I find out it is something serious. I am 19 but am under their insurance so I have no clue if discussions and visits with my doctor are confidential from them?
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2019.09.11 05:27 HereBeOranges Were any of you talked to by your partners before addressing your problem? I could use some advice.

I'm a woman, mid-30s, with a male partner also mid-30s. We've been together for almost a decade and we've overcome a lot together through honest communication. I know now that his excessive porn use will be another hurdle and am gearing up for the conversation. I've been hesitating because I am very concerned about the "right" way to approach him. I've tried asking in other subreddits for advice but the responses were mostly "I feel you girl, don't know what to do either" or "it's probably your fault". I was hoping I could learn from your and your partners' successes and/or mistakes.
Feel free to skip my essay below if you have just general advice, otherwise read on for full deets.
Here's the situation:
1.) I know he's always watched porn a bit and I actually didn't care too much because our sex life was normal. But now it's not, and whereas before I never noticed him using porn I now constantly catch him clicking out of browsers/downloads, presumably prepping for an epic session after I leave. He works from home and I'm gone 8+hrs day and he's still not able to wait til then?! Plus, if I get up earlier than usual or go to bed late I sometimes catch him actually masturbating to porn, although I've never confronted him, just allowed him to play it off because I honestly don't know what else to do/say.
2.) No, I haven't gotten fat/ugly (nor have I had any kids) as some lovely people assumed in the last place I asked. Naturally I have aged a bit since 10 years ago but I'm still considered attractive and I do take care of myself.
3.) Over the past year our sex life has dwindled. We used to take turns initiating somewhat spontaneously and now we basically "schedule" intercourse ahead of time and even then it's rare, like, 1-2x month vs. 2+x week before. It's been gradual but marked.
4.) When we do have sex, it's a mixed bag. He always works to satisfy me which is nice but my body doesn't seem to be enough for him anymore, and I strongly suspect his "death grip". The only things that bring him to orgasm are bj's with lots of hand, or nonstop rough missionary pounding. The latter is particularly problematic because I like a bit of it but more than 5 minutes and it starts to hurt, and becomes unbearable after like 20+ minutes. Sometimes I try to bear it "for a few more mintues" hoping he'll come because I genuinely want him to. Sometimes I can't hide it well and he gets all concerned about it and that kills the mood for both of us. I've tried doing other things but nothing else works, not even things that did in the past.
5.) Because of the above, I've lost a lot of motivation to initiate. I don't want my cervix slammed for 20 minutes even if I get a courtesy orgasm beforehand. I've gently brought this up to him after, but nothing's changed much, except that maybe we have sex even less now :-/
6.) I have tried talking to him about "death grip" in the past and he acknowledged it, but that was a while ago and if anything it's gotten worse.
So, thanks for reading that. What can I do? I can't think of a way to bring this up without sounding too harsh and I feel like if I misspeak I won't be able to fix it since it's such a personal thing. If he feels even less secure how will things get better, right?
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2019.08.04 17:07 Xalphsin Story: Birth of our first baby!

Before I begin, there is no TL;DR as this is a story, it will be long and detailed. My aim is to not only re-live those 5 crazy days and further my understanding but also to help others. I hope this story can give you courage no matter the circumstance.
Monday the 22nd of July at 9:30 am, we both lay down to sleep after a long, busy night shift. She works as a nurse with the Vascular Access team at a large hospital, and I work as Patient Transport at the same hospital. We both really enjoy it, even though I think she makes more of a difference than I do, regardless of her protest, but I'm still glad to help where I can. She began to twitch in bed and I could tell she was asleep. After only a few minutes, I heard an odd sound, almost like a loud trickling, and her eyes shot open.
"Shit, my water broke,"
She ran downstairs and dove in the tub. There was a large amount of amniotic fluid, and it continued to flow for some time. We made an appointment for a non-stress test at the hospital and left shortly thereafter.
After we arrived, she mentioned that there really wasn't a reason to go, as having your water break before you start labor means it's safe to stay at home between 12 and 18 hours following. However, just in case something was wrong, it didn't hurt either. Just as she thought, the midwife said the same thing but recommended completing the 20-minute non-stress test since she was already there. Baby's heartbeat was 130 to 140 bpm, which was healthy, and we went home to do some housework and to have her prepare for labor.
My wife invited her doula, someone who is not part of the hospital but provides support for both partners during pregnancy, to our house to help induce labor by holding various positions. She would bend over, hands resting on the couch while swaying and bobbing her hips. The doula also brought a yoga ball to sit on and massage oils that had soothing smells. We waited for 18 hours and finally, we headed into triage.
Every nurse and midwife we saw at the hospital was kind and understanding, something that really helped us during her long labor. We waited five hours in triage until a room finally opened in Labor and Delivery, where we would be until Wednesday morning at 9:45. During that time, the doula gave my wife guidance, and I held some essential oils to her nose for comfort. Her contractions began to get stronger and happen closer together. She opted to use a less intrusive medication, cervidil, that inserted into the vagina and removed via string. This would help to hasten her labor.
Dilation was slow and even after her water had broken, was an almost non-existent 1 cm. It wouldn't change for around 6 hours, being only 3 cm. Her contractions were also not painful and not progressing, with the time between them being 4-7 minutes long.
"This is really disappointing,"
I understood, she had been waiting almost ten months to see our baby and labor was slow. The entirety of this time she voiced concern about how she felt the baby was positioned oddly. Each time she was examined though, she was told that the baby was just fine and ready. Around 1 am Wednesday morning, the medicine she had inserted fell out when she used the bathroom. The nurse told the midwife, but there wasn't much to be done as it didn't seem to be helping.
3 Hours later and her contractions had finally progressed, and she was dilated to 5 cm. She decided to ask for an epidural, something she had wanted to avoid when we spoke of it before. However, she wasn't in labor when she first decided. The pain was now great enough that the epidural gave her comfort, who was I to argue? There was a problem though, the space in her back near her spine was very small and the epidural line would kink inside her causing a downstream occlusion, meaning the medicine couldn't flow properly through the line. The anesthesiologist was able to pull a small section of the line out of her back and resume flow, but anytime she moved, it would kink. The nurse tried several things to fix it herself, and sometimes it would work for 10 minutes, other times 30 minutes. She was beginning to become frustrated. At this point, we all tried getting some rest since no one had slept in 36 hours.
I woke with a start to see seven people walking hurriedly around the room. The nurse leaned over and said, "Oh yeah, you need to wake up now we're rushing in to do an emergency C section." The baby was breech, instead of being head down towards the opening of the vagina, his butt was facing down. This was why her labor was progressing so slow. After putting on special disposable scrubs, we were told that in 15 mintues, 10:15 am Wednesday morning, we would be going in to the OR to operate. My wife was shaking, she was afraid her epidural was going to kink during surgery and feeling would begin to return. They decided to remove the line and instead, give her a spinal tap. Luckily, the CRNA that was going to be pushing phenylephrine and managing the anesthesia during the surgery was a friend of her's and would ease a little of her worries. He promised to give us a play by play as it happened.
The doula and I stood outside the OR and waited for the O.K. to enter once her spinal was finished and just before they began the C section. Once inside, we sat behind her head and arms, which were the only things visible behind a large curtain blocking the rest of her body. She said the spinal tap was difficult and took 3 pokes to work. As soon as she said this, they began. She was visibly shaking and I wasn't any better. The CRNA looked over the curtain and began to tell her what was going on and what to expect. There was pressure all over her mid drift.
Suddenly, he exclaimed, "There's a hand!" Her face lit up and she smiled. He announced the baby's arrival, one body part at a time, each time a smile and a tear. When he finally made it out, they took him to a corner of the room to clean and suction. The suction was necessary as being birthed through the vaginal canal puts pressure on the baby and helps clear mucus from the lungs, while a C section does not. While this was happening, my wife was being sewn up and she encouraged me to stay with the baby. I felt conflicted as I wanted to stay with both of them, but ultimately, went with the newborn and held his little hand. After he was clean, we took him back to mom, unbuttoned the top of her gown, and let them have skin to skin contact for the first time. They laid him down on her chest and she began cry.
"It's my little baby."
(As I write this, I cannot help but cry. I figured it would happen, but I'm glad for it.)
Very quickly afterwards, we went to the recovery room where baby was taken care of. The doula and I waited with the baby for mom to come back, and when she did, she was so very happy to see him. She tried to breast feed him as he wanted to latch right away. He didn't get much but a small amount of colostrum. Things quickly turned sour as they checked his blood sugar and found it to be 38. 40 is the normal range for babies and anything below needs to be monitored. While it was only 2 points below, my wife had Gestational Diabetes, which is only present during pregnancy around or after the 20-week mark. She had to manage her blood sugar, and because of this, the baby's pancreas was used to producing insulin to deal with mom's blood sugar. Now that he was out, he needed to learn to regulate his own. For now, he was producing too much insulin. This resulted in him being taken to the Neonatal Intensive Care unit. Mom was not able to follow as she needed to finish in recovery, and she was not able to walk due to the spinal tap.
The time was 11:30 am and I sat with my son as he was tube fed donor milk to hopefully increase his blood sugar. For around 11 hours, he was fed and checked, sitting under a little heat lamp to keep warm and hooked up to several monitors. Eventually, I brought my wife in a wheelchair to see him. She was very heartbroken and scared, and we sat quietly and hugged. Finally, after many tests, his blood sugar sat around a healthy 45 to 50 and he was brought back down to our new room on the MotheBaby unit at 10:30 pm.
We changed his diaper, breast fed, and rocked our little baby the rest of the night, through Thursday, and into Friday until 5 pm. Throughout this time, we got very little sleep and were visted by many people. Family came to hold him and bring food, the nurses provided help and care, and others brought paperwork and did tests. It all felt like a blur and my memory is very hazy. One thing of note, something to hopefully encourage you to ask questions, stand firm, and keep an open mind, was a phlebotomist who came to take his last blood test. This would help determine if we could leave Friday or stay til Saturday. He wanted the baby in the hospital bassinet to poke for the blood draw, however my wife wanted to do it while breast feeding as it would be comforting for the baby. He argued with her and tried to convice her that it would be fine, that he would have to bend over and his back hurt, and several other reasons.
"Ok, well I'm still going to breast feed him."
I'm really not sure why he tried to convince her, but he mentioned that very few people asked for this and he usually convinced them otherwise. This made her upset as this was her baby and there's no reason he couldn't make a quick poke, on a bed that can be freaking raised up to a perfect height, and just be fine with it. In fact, the person who had done it the day prior gave her no problems and did it with great success.
So here we are, my baby is swaddled in a bassinet beside me as I write, my wife is getting some much needed rest upstairs, and I'm somehow awake with maybe 6 hours of sleep in the last 5 days. This was a diffcult and important experience, one that I want to share, if only to understand the crazy world we live in a little better. I hope you enjoyed this story. Please, share your own if you have the time. Have a good night!
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2019.07.31 01:00 throwawyfrustrated23 me (38f) SO(37m) he seems like he cant handle that my health is declining and is getting emotionally absive

Goddamit. I love my dude so much but he fits most catogories of emotional abuse. I am a type 1 diabetic, that has been a vet tech for 17 years. back near memorial day I went into work and was stumbling, mumbling, couldnt see righ and left side was numb. Every since then I have been to a shit ton of doctors and can't work. With the way he is speaking to me, and the wy my ficances and medical shit right now is, "just leave him" is not a response.. He also got phsycial one time and shoved me into the couch and stangles me but now he gaslights me like it didnt happen. The reason he did it is I because couldnt walk then and the first docto I saw just said it was a mental issue after seeing me for 5 mintues and llooking at my cahrt seeing that I am on antidepressants. SO when I was at home I got shitty about the way that docter trigger my PTSD and I got up and tried to walk and yelled about how I'm jsut crazy apparrently even though I have stroke symptoms, so He trow me into the couch nd thought putting his hands on my hroat and thenmy mouth was appropriate after I pleaded for him to stop. he hasnt gotten phcysical since but he screams at me for stupid arguments and bangs stuff around and tells me to shut the fuck up and he avoids me fot at day telling me to dhut the fuck up because he doesnt want me to try to work things out. I am so frustrated with my health problems and he says I am picking fights becayse of my health problems, even though he starts every fight, and I try to deescalate and talk in a low voice and validate his feelings while saying we can diagree with out ti getting heated, and his respons is to scream at me saying he's doing so because I am not listening. My hearing is just fine dude. I flinch when he makes noice. I have tried to tell him thta he is a very tall dude and I have been beat up several times by family memebers and my ex husband so please try to not yell because it just is triggering. Sorry I am just ranting. He is still helping me, paying the bills, taking me to every doctors appointment, helping me shower, helping me walk and go up steps. We have been together 8 years and have decided to not marry due to all of my health problems and that potentially afftecitn my ability to get medicaid,trying to ger ssdi, financial aid from hospitals, etc. Sorrty fot the typos, I have double vision and vertigo. I am being tested for MS and or god knows wht neuro stuff. He has been such an amazing partner over the last 8 years. We have a shit ton in common. He makes me laugh. We collect the same weird shit. But I also can't deal with his yelling and emotional abuse with all the othr shit goin on with me. I think he is lashing out because he is scared something worse will happen with my health, and this is just his shitty way of dealing with his own hurt. What would you all do if you were falling apart and your SO was lashing out in hurtful ways? oh we live in the midwest- adding that due to the rules.
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2019.07.23 23:19 Th3HarryHorrorShow fdfdswerfew

· Everything was chugging along just fine until one fateful day when he stepped foot in the West Allis Public Library.
· Jeff was sitting in the library, reading a book when a stranger passed and dropped a note in dahmer's lap.
· The note read "Meet me in the second-level bathroom. I'll give you a blowjob".
· In that one moment, the internal dam he had built began to crack. He resisted the allure of library head, but the incident planted seeds in his mind that began to take root.
· Eventually his will broke down and he began to jerk off freuqently (with his hand) nearly 4 times a day. He came to the eventual conclusion that he needed to lose his virginity with a man.
· Slide
· Naturally his attendence at church slackened off, he starts hitting the sauce, and began hanging around gay book shops trolling for local gay friendly bars.
· He was still a sexual novice and wasn't quite sure where to start with any of it.
· He made timid advances in private back rooms, in the dark with other men, and also spent some time engaging in more indecent exposure; he did this in particular another 6 times at least according to him.
· He also engaged in frotterism- the pressing of one's groin against an unsuspecting and unconsenting victim in a crowded place.
· Talk about the evolution of sexuality from self to mutual. His ideal partner was someone would allow himself to be held as an object.
· One day he saw a mannequin in a Boston Store store window; it caught his eye, especially its torso.
· Later that week, he stayed in the store and hid as they closed. He then went grabbed the mannequin and ran off with it.
· He went through different fantasy scenarios with the mannequin, most of the ending in masturbation.
· He never tried to penetrate the mannequin but was forced to get rid of it when his grandma started asking weird questions.
· Slide
· During that same time, Jeff's brother David came over to visit. David spent the night and him and Jeff had to share a bed.
· Jeff tried to make moves on David- his own brother. Read quote from page 72.
· Towards the close of 1985, Jeff would discover bath house AND a way to get the product/ body he was looking for.
· The bathhouses were a trend that started in the 60's and 70's which could trace their orgins in Turkish baths earlier.
· These clubs typically had coffee and tv lounges, saunas and pools, as well as jacuzzis.
· The action happened upstairs. Cubicles line a long hallway and people would pair up sexually by walking into a cubicle and closing the door behind them.
· Dahmer encountered other weirdos, not quite like himself but with their own fetishes. Dahmer recalls a man who wanted to suck on his feet. the man had no teeth so dahmer lay back and enjoyed the ride.
· Most of his other pairings were much more rigourous which was not to Jeff's liking. He hated being the bottom, and although he enjoyed being top, what he really wanted was for his partner to keep lie still and let him enjoy himself. objects of pleasure quote. page 73.
· The bathhouses only exacerbated Dahmer's issues; his selfish one sided sexual impulses were fostered here, which owuld lead towards his end goal of product killing.
· slide
· Dahmer, in 1986, took steps to bring about his fantasy of a submitting, unmoving partner to life.
· In June of that year, Dahmer went to doctor and requested a prescription for sleeping pills citing difficulty adjusting to his late night shift.
· This wasn't true; Dahmer was using the pills on unsuspecting partners at the bath house, dosing them with 5 pills a man until they passed out.
· Dahmer then had their bodies all to himself and could explore his fantasy world uninterrupted.
· Dahmer didnt engage in penetrative sex, so oddly enough most of his partners didnt lodge much complaint.
· His actions were reported to the bathhouse management but went uninterrupted until he misjudged the dosage one night while drugging an Asian out of towner.
· The man was so conked out he didnt wake up for two days; he would end up spending a week in the hospital. The management of the bathhouses ONLY then revoked his membership, but didn't report him to the cops.
· As a replacement for the bathhouse, Dahmer would rent a room in the Ambassador hotel and take men back there instead; luring and drugging 6 men this way.
· Dahmer was normally incapable of attaining an erection, but when the men were comatose, he would be able to get hard and masturbate 3-4 times per encounter.
· Other times he would snuggle with the men's sleeping bodies, laying his head on their chest to listen to them breath.
· Slide
· Dahmer during this time spent alot of time on Milwaukee's South 2nd street; in particular three clubs- Club 219, C'est La Vie and the Phoniex.
· Club 219 was a popular dance and strip club and the Phoniex was your average downtown bar. At the phoniex, dahmer was known to sit in the same stool, rarely talking with others.
· HE was polite but kept to himself, typically only talking briefly with better looking black men who happened to be in the bar. He started getting into conflicts with his grandma about his late nights and drinking.
· He began to morph into what Shrine describes as hypersexuality- buying more and more porn, masterbating more and more, hungrier for tangible sexual encounters than ever before.
· His fantasies didnt cut it anymore, this isnt unusual especially when one considers the manner in which he had been pulling reality into his fantasy life through the drugging of lovers.
· The porn also held a significant importance to dahmer; it was a flat static thing- an object. Dahmer wanted that- but in real life. Dahmer began imagining time with a corpse; its hard to know how long the thought had been in his head, but he acted on it during this time;
· dahmer tells when he tried to sneak into a cemetary to dig up a freshly buried boy. The ground was too frozen and he was to afraid of being out in the open and getting caught so he fled before he could get started with the act.
· slide
· Another symptom of Dahmer's hypersexuality; in september of 1986, Dahmer went to a river bank and pulled down his pants and lifted his shirt; he proceeded to jack off in view of two young boys who began to heckle him.
· He continuted, shouting at them that "he was having a great time". The boys went to the cops and reported him; he was subsequently arrested and charged with Lewd and Lacivious Behaviour and indecent exposure.
· Dahmer was sentenced to one year's probation and counseling for sexual deviancy. Not much is notable from his time in counseling.
· He resisted much of it- one element that is telling were the answers he marked true on his eval page 79. During his therapy he would frequently physically present his back to his Dr.
· His doctors remarks from therapy are also interesting "page 83."
· One of their therapy sessions would take place on the 16th of november 1987.
· Dahmer would begin his slip into serial killing 4 days later. Her closing remarks i found to be super neat. page 84- ending with "SPOOKY"
· Slide
· On the 20th of novemeber, dahmer met a young blond haired 25 year old Steven Tuomi.
· steve was newer in town and was working at a local diner George Webb's Resturant during the same graveyard shift as dahmer.
· Steven had the night off and was leaving club 219 around the same time as jeff, hitting it off on the pavement just outside the club.
· Dahmer offered to take steven back to his room at the ambassador hotel. It was around 2 or three in the evening.
· The two went up to dahmer's room , drinking rum and coke out of glasses dahmer had specifically prepped with sleeping pills by taking the powder and lacing the cup intended for tuomi.
· they undressed, kissed, mutually masturbated each other and cuddled to sleep. Then Dahmer woke up.
· The first thing Dahmer realized upon waking up was that he was lying on top of Tuomi.
· It then clicked that Tuomi was dead; his head was hanging off of the bed's edge; dahmer could also feel bones crunching under neath his weight as he shifted up.
· steve's chest had been beaten in and ribs were exposed through the skin. Dahmer's own arms were black and blue with brusies.
· Dahmer recalls page 85. He hid the body in the closet and spent the next 5 hours pacing back and forth smoking cigarettes trying to figure out what the hell to do.
· Other details remained fuzzy; they had been drinking rum and coke, but where was the bottle of rum? Had he left the room? Thrown it out the window? The possibilities and the implications of the missing bottle would be on his mind long after he left the room.
· The morning passed and afternoon came. Dahmer cleaned himself up and went out around 1pm; he headed to one of his daytime haunts- the Grand avenue mall.
· He bought a large suitcase at Woolworths-- he picked the largest he could find.
· He returned to the hotel, booking it for another night, took the suitcase up the stairs and set to work.
· He stuffed steven's body into the suitcase, secured the room, and lugged it through the hotel. He hailed a cab and loaded the body into the cab back to his grandma's house.
· Once home, he tucked the suticase in grandma's fruit cellar and went to his room to crash.
· slide
· Keep in mind this is the 20th and 21st of November 1987. One thing complicated things; Dahmer's family was in town the next day and through Thanksgiving.
· Steven's body had to stay in the fruit cellar for the week. Dahmer still went to work at the factory each night, planning for the weekend when he would have to set about disposing the body.
· By the weekend thr family would have left the house, giving him the time needed to do the job properly.
· He spent the weekend conducting the clean up; the in house setting made it difficult- on top of that dahmer hated the work describing it as "unpleasant and messy".
· He removed the head, slit open the belly and proceeded to slice the flesh and meat into small pieces that could fit into plastic garbage bags.
· The bones were wrapped in newspaper to prevent splinters from flying and were then smashed with a hammer.
· The breakdown of the body was accomplished quickly- it took roughly two hours. Trash came on monday, and the bags were placed at the curb for pick up.
· Dahmer kept the head for himself for another two weeks. He used soilex and bleach to take the flesh off and dahmer masturbated while looking at the skull.
· The bleaching process had rendered the skull brittle and dahmer ultimatly smashed it too. Dahmer would come to perfect the bleaching process later on. No charges were ever brought since there was nothing left of steve to find.
· This murder represented a turning point. Dahmer gave up his internal struggle to stay good.
· His thought was that the murdering was part of who he was at his core- why fight it page 88.
· Slide
· The next man wouln't be so lucky. In the middle of that month, on the 17th, Jeff was was waiting at the bus stop outside club 219 when he met James Doxator.
· It was around 30 degrees out-- James was a young native american man, trying his luck in the big city after leaving a difficult home behing.
· He was wearing burgundy jeans that night with suspenders and a sweater. He had a golfer's cap on.
· Dahmer approached James, offered him $50 to come home and spend the night at his place. Jeff was pleasant and james gladly went with him.
· They snuck upstairs in his grandma's house where they kissed and fooled aronund; dahmer gave james head and for an unknown reason they went down to the basement after this.
· I suspect Jeff had already formulated a plan to kill james when he met him. James had other plans; once down in the basement, James mentioned that he had to leave- it was around 4 AM.
· Just like with hicks, dahmer saw a partner leaving him. he snapped. he mixed james a drink of baileys, coffee, and crushed sleeping pill. They made out some more, and James fell asleep on Dahmer's lap, feeling safe and secure.
· Dahmer held him there, rubbing his hands on his back and shoulders for a while. He then got up, gently laid Jame's head down and queitly spead a sheet out on the floor.
· Dahmer puts what happened next bluntly" page 94. He held his body until day broke, then hid him in the same fruit cellar.
· Slide
· He freshened up upstairs, ate breakfast with his grandma, who then went to church (it was a sunday). after she left, he went downstairs, fetched the body and snuggled more with it, culminating in fucking the body anally.
· James remained in the fruit cellar for a week, with dahmer ignoring the problem and working at the factory as usual. After the fifth day, the odor was beginning to fill the house and grandma began to notice. Jeff blamed an overly full litter box.
· That following sunday (7 days total from grave to disposal) dahmer repeated the process he had undergone with Tuomi.
· He cut off the head for later use, and stripped the flesh off, emptying it and the crushed bone into garbage bags.
· This time, Jeff took advantage of the built in drainage in the basement and hosed the blood from the process down the hole in the floor. Everything but the head was taken out with the trash on monday morning.
· The head was boiled and bleached like before, kept as a mastubatory aid for two weeks. It too broke, but a seed of an idea was planted in dahmer's head. Dahmer envisioned a shrine or alter composed of skulls and bones. A monument and focal point for his secret worship.
· His fantasies and urges were, by his own admission, in the drivers seat, and its needs were becoming more and more pressing. When the skull broke and was thrown away, all trace of Doxator, just like tuomi was gone- a victim to a mad man's fantasy.
· He had looked seventeen when dahmer saw him- he was tall and handsome with wispy mustache. He had in fact been 14 upon his death
· Slide
· Dahmer was driven by this intense desire to posess good looking young men- he remembers the period living with his grandmother as one filled with relentless desire...not a common thing one says.
· Two months after the killing of Doxator, Dahmer was back on the prowl.
· What used to be disorganized lurking turned into a hunt with an established pattern; dahmer was hunting with his MO freshly solidified. Dahmer met one Richard Guerrero (23) outside the Phoniex on the 27th of March in 1988 around 2 AM.
· Dahmer offered Richard 50$ to spend the rest of the evening with him to which Richard agreed. Dahmer had the taxi park at the Mai Kai Tavern- a polynsesian pop place (http://www.tikiroom.com/tikicentral/bb/viewtopic.php?topic=39976&forum=2&13) and he and Richard walked the last two blocks home.
· Not sure how this didnt raise red flags. Grandma was asleep; Dahmer and Richard snuck upstairs and engaged in the same light sex that had become dahmer's routine. Two hours later, Dahmer made the move, prepared the sleeping draught and offered it to Richard.
· ///rich accepts, drinks it and feel asleep, nude in dahmer's arms. Dahmer strangled him and once the deed was done threw his arms around the body, hugging it tight.
· Dahmer's murders, from this point on, would incude this distorted demonstration of "love"- this killing to keep you with me forever. Dahmer, according to him, did not enjoy the act of killing; it was the means to an end- that end being the onlykind of love he could really process .
· Dahmer still had a few hours left with the fresh body so he snuggled with it some more and gave the body a blow job. Dahmer left the body in his bedroom, presumably in bed and did his usual breakfast with granny routine.
· Dahmer now understood that the 2-3 hour period that grandma was out of the house during was his optimal dismemberment period, so he set to work; richard had only been dead for maybe 6 hours at this point.
· His remains were loaded in the trash but the skull was kept. He held onto to richard's skull for months to come, having finally found a way to keep the skulls preserved for longer periods using a diluted bleach mixture.
· Slide
· The following weekend was Easter weekend, and Dahmer wasn't going to let any time go to waste. He dropped by CLub 219 and met a man by the name Ronald Flowers.
· Ron lived about an hour away in Racine, WI but would visit the club about 2-3 times a week. He had originally decided not to go out, because he was waiting at his house for a furniture delivery, but when the delivery didn't come...he decided to head to milwaukee to go clubbing.
· He met his friends at the club, enjoying the evening, then their group left the club and walked out to their cars. They all pulled out and drove off, but Flowers walked over to his 1978 oldsmobile regency and couldnt get the car to start.
· He tried a few more times and realized the battery was dead. Ronald was stuck here for the night. Flowers walked back to the club, and stood in lien to use the pay phone outside- he made a few calls but couldnt get any help. After he couldnt get any help that way, Dahmer walked up to him. Dahmer heard Flowers out, and offered to help him.
· Dahmer's suggestion was to take a cab with him back to his house, pick up jeff's car and drive back with it to jump start ronald's car. Jeff didnt actually have a car, but then again, dahmer wasn't trying to play mechanic here.
· Flowers had only had one drink that night, so he was still pretty sharp, and when talking with dahmer, and riding with him in the taxi, ronald noticed a few things about jeff.
· For starters, Jeff wouldnt really look him in the eye- he also spoke morosely about how much he hated his work, family, and overall life. Flowers thought dahmer was depressing and a bit of a boring dude- he kept along with dahmer, primarily as a means to the end. The got out of the taxi, like dahmer was used to, two blocks away.
· Flowers asked him about this, and jeff mentioned hed didnt want to wake his grandma with headlights and slamming doors. Flowers also noticed the lack of a car in dahmer's driveway.
· Jeff's grandma heard them come in and asked if it was jeff; jeff replied yes and that he was going to make a coffee; he didnt mention his guest. Flower's alarm bells kept going off the longer he was in jeff's kitchen ; for one dahmer was visibly shaking, presumably from nerves.
· Flowers was wracking his mind on how to get out of the situation when...he fell asleep.
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· HE woke up two days later in a hospital; cops told him he had been found in a field. There was no sign of any drugs in his system and no sign of sexual assault, but his jewlery was gone and his cash he had on him was missing too. ($200).
· His brother picked him up and he went home. Back at his house, Flowers noticed two new things. There were brusie marks around his neck and his underwear were on him, but inside out. Flowers went so far as to lodge a complaint with the police and was able to successfully point the cops to his house. Dahmer was interviewed by the cops on april 5th, but since the situation was he said he said, the cops dropped the investigation.
· The flowers incident was damning because it showed dahmer did have some degree of control; he clearly tried to strangle flowers, but was able to stop before he killed him.
· dahmer must have struggled with the whole scenatio- it was out of his MO and his grandma being awake was a variable that may have saved flower's life. Three months later, Flowers was back at the club and was able to recognize dahmer, apparently because he had the same "grubby" hush puppy shoes on he had worn last time.
· Flower's asked if he dahmer remembered him- dahmer says he didnt but invited him back to his house for coffee. Flower's loses it, screaming YOU KNOW WHO THE FUCK I AM, lunging to attack dahmer. Flower's friends held him back. Later on outside the club, dahmer was getting into a cab with a handsome looking black man, when Flowers spotted the two of them and screamed "DONT GO WITH HIM, HES FUCKING CRAZY". Dahmer prospective companion backed out of the cab ride with Jeff, and all parties left and went their seperate ways into the night.
· The Flower's affair ultimatley resulted in Dahmer's family deciding he needed to move out of grandma's house. Grandma herself didnt like his drinking habits, and was suspicious of all of dahmer's guests he had over. The desicion was reached via intervention style conference; the family members present also decided that jeff needed to seek counseling for excessive drinking.
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· On the 26th of April, Dahmer started counselinf with Dr. Bleadorn- the sessions only lasted 4 weeks- and dahmer's mind was elsewhere...primarily on the new star wars VHS RETURN OF THE JEDI. jeff was obsessed with the movie and was particulalry focused on the all powerful emporer. He even went out and bought yellow contact lenses.
· In June, Dahmer moved into a new apartment at 808 north 24th street and stocked up on some more sleeping pills. he also brought richard Guerrero's skull with him.
· At work, Dahmer seemed totally normal. His job performance reports were glowing for 4 years with one reading page. 99. Some coworkers thought he seemed stressed, while others cited his habit of falling asleep at the job. His time at his job was overall uneventful until his arrest in September of 1988.
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· Here's what happened around his arrest- on Monday the 26th, a student from a local art school was walking home when he felt a presence behind him.
· The boy, Somsack Sinthasomphone, was a Laotian immigrant, was thoroughly americanized and was from a large family.
· Dahmer approached the boy and struck up a conversation with him. He mentioned he had just picked up a new camera and wanted to give it a spin; would somsack take $50 to go with dahmer and help him out?
· The boy was clever enough to ask dahmer straight up if it required him taking his clothes off...dahmer brushed that off saying itdidnt really mtter, and it was just for his personal hobby use.
· Somsack decided to go- he thought dahmer was nice and followed him a block down to dahmer's place. Dahmer immediately jumped into it, asking somsack to pose for him and then take off his shirt, since it would make for better photos. somsack was reluctant but complied.
· dahmer then made the two of them some coffee, and as somsack sipped it, dahmer had him take more photos, this time with the zipper of his pants down. Dahmer took some photos then straight up pulled his pants down trying to grab somsacks business. Somsack stopped him and started to leave. Dahmer asked him for a favor before he left...would he sit next to jeff for a moment or two?
· somsack deicded to do that for a few minutes; then jeff asked if he could listen to his stomach. He placed his head on somack's stomach and began to kiss and lick him on his stomach. Somsack, jumped up, grabbed his backpack and ran out to the door; dahmer called out to him- dont forget your 50$ and dont tell anyone...
· Somsack started running to his house but began to feel tired and disoriented. he got to his house finally but couldn't stand when arrived.
· His father lied him down and when he couldn't wake him after two hours, decided to take him to a hospital. The hopsital got it right this time citing a drug overdose was involved.
· cops were brought in and interviewed somsack for three hours. from 7:30 to 10:30 that night. He was able to point out the apartment and the cops were then able to track dahmer down at work.
· jeff was arrested at work (which he felt was embarrassing) and was charged with second degree sexual assault and enticing a child for immoral purposes.
· Dahmer felt his privacy had been violated and was angry since now everyone at work knew he was a homosexual.
· Jeff spent 6 days in jail, and cops searched his apartment.
· They found sleeping pills, his camera and photos of somsack, as well as some male porn. What they did not find was richard guerrerro' skull.
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· Lionel also found out about his son's sexuality during that time. He supposedly took it well, despite maintaining a christian stance on the matter of homosexuality. During court ordered psych evals, dahmer opened up more than he ever did in those settings, admiting he was anxious, tense and depressed.
· he also mentioned he had deep feelings of alienation. The doctor concluded that dahmer was "very pscholigcally damaged" and " there is not question that mr. dahmer is in need of longterm psychological treatment. A second opinion was asked for and provided.
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· Dahmer pled no contest, stating he didnt realize the reisdue was in the cup and that he didnt know somsack was only 13-
· his sentencing was in january of 1989. Dahmer was ultimalty sentenced to a year in jail, but was allowed to be out on work release, reporting to work at the chocolate factory during the day, and jail at night.
· Dahmer wrote a letter asking for a modificiation of sentence. Lionel too wrote letter but it was very much different, page 104.
· In january of 1989, dahmer was found guilty, but the judge decided to wait a few months before sentencing to allow himself some time to review dahmer's psych reports.
· Dahmer would take advantage of this reprieve as best he could. His compulsion was getting worse and worse, to the point where described it as painful.
· On the 20th of march, with his time in jail coming up, dahmer took a 10 day vacation that coincided with the easter holiday.
· he moved out of his apartment and moved back in with grandma, since he wouldnt be able to pay rent in jail. On Easter Saturday, he got the itch and got ready to get back to hunting.
· He had his perscription of sleeping pills filled, and went out.
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· that evening he didnt talk to anyone throughout the evening, making the rounds at the bars on 2nd street.
· He made a last stop at a club called La Cage (2nd & national). He still hadnt talked to anyone, and was about to leave when a handsome looking black man came up and started talking to jeff.
· This was a first; The man's name was Anthony Sears. He was 21 years old, wearing a v neck sweater with a white tee underneath and trendy blue jeans and white sneakers.
· Tony was there with his frend, Jeff Connor who was talking with someone else.
· Tony asks Jeff is he has any coke to which jeff replies, he had that and some rum as well, thinking a rum and coke. Tony laughed and explained he meant cocaine; Tony was addicited to cocaine, and dahmer sensing that weakness instead offered to spend the night with him.
· Tony eagerly agreed, seeming excited for the night to come. Jeff Connor offered to be a good wingman and drive them to wherever dahmer had in mind- dahmer mentioned he was visiting from chicago and was staying with his grandma while he was in town ( a lie).
· Connor drove the pair, with dahmer and sear being in the back seat. sears was so ready to go, he started giving dahmer head in the back seat. Connor knew what was happening, but seemed more bothered by the weird feeling dahmer gave him.
· When they arrived home, Dahmer got out first and walked across the street; connor mentioned he didnt feel right about jeff, but sears told connors he'd call him a few hours and he'd be fine. Sears then snuck into bed with dahmer, where jeff gave him head this time.
· They lay in bed snuggling for a bit and dahmer asked if he could see him again. Tony mentioned he had to leave and probably wouldn't return-
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· you can guess what happened next. Dahmer went downstairs made his sleeping pill in a coffee drink, and served it to sears. 30 mintues later, and tony was out; dahmer did his usual routing of kissing and hugging until he worked up the nerve and strangled him.
· Grandma woke up, they did breakfast, and the day being Easter, dahmer knew grandma would be out longer than usual.
· He would have almost 4 hours with tony's body. Dahmer went back upstairs after she left, and did the usual desecration, including true necrophilia this time.
· Dahmer tried something different this time; he dragged the body to the tub, and attempted to flay him- that being the removal of all of his skin. He then went back to his usual, removing he head, breaking down the flesh and breaking the bones apart. the one other notable deviation he made, was removing anthony's genitals. Dahmer's reasoning was he "like(d) him especially well"".
· Dahmer took the trophies he had collected and his them in his room; he later consulted with a taxidermist on the best way to keep flesh preserved--acetone was recommeneded so dahmer bout a 10 gallon bucket of the stuff and put the head and genitals in there.
· He also bought makeup to use to help pretty up the genitals. The acetone worked fairly well, allowing dahmer to keep the macabre trophies for later mastubatory use.
· He also used the head for other just nasty purposes. you can guess where that leads. Once the head no longer lent itself to that kind of behaviour, dahmer would scalp the head and heep tony's ponyailed scalp as a long term trophy.
· Jeff connor was naturally concerned and went looking for him, enlisting police aid. The cops now had a detailed description and a missing person- a first in dahmer's current history of offense.
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· Nothing came of it, and enventually dahmer's time came to enter jail. He bought a large metal samsonite cosmetic's case and loaded tony's now mummified head and genitals into it, storing it at work for safekeeping.
· Once thanksgiving rolled around, dahmer got a 10 hour get out of jail free card. He decided to wander around rather than see his family. he went drinking at a bar and had a drink called yukon jack, offered by an older white gentleman he met at the 219 that night.
· The next thing dahmer knew, he was awake in the strangers house- hog tied above a bed being spanked and butt fucked with a candle. HE started yelling and screaming, forcing the man to free him; he hurridly left and returned to jail 5 hours late for his return time. It wasn't until the following day that he was able to poop out the candle.
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· dahmer was let out of jail 3 months early, primarily due to the letter he wrote, and returned to the chocolate factory to pick up his nasty shit. he also got some more sleeping pills prescribed to him , all in his first month of being relesed. The head had grown moldy, but the genitals had preserved well. that was when dahmer decided to boil the flesh down to the skull, while at least keeping the scalp.
· Dahmer went looking for an apartment and found one in the now infamous Oxford Apartments # 213. 300 a month rent excluding electricity. came fully furnished. he moved in on the 14th of may, 1990 taking hsi few belongings including his dead guy mementos.
· The apartment was so cheap because it was located in a terrible part of town. but because it was so miserable there, everyone minded their own business giving dahmer alot of latitude to do whatever he wanted. The ease of accessibility to shittier sides of town and increased privacy were all dahmer needed to really go off the deep end.
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· On the outside, dahmer seemed to hold it together, working at the chocolate factory by day and going to a bathhouse in chicago on his time off. In his secret private life, he had spray painted sear's skull and had taken to displaying it- the first step towards the creation of his "shrine" he had been thinking about.
· A little over a month into living in Oxford Apartments dahmer would claim another victim, and over the next 14 months ,dahmer would do far more than that.
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Everything was chugging along just fine until one fateful day when he stepped foot in the West Allis Public Library.
Jeff was sitting in the library, reading a book when a stranger passed and dropped a note in dahmer's lap.
The note read "Meet me in the second-level bathroom. I'll give you a blowjob".
In that one moment, the internal dam he had built began to crack. He resisted the allure of library head, but the incident planted seeds in his mind that began to take root.
Eventually his will broke down and he began to jerk off freuqently (with his hand) nearly 4 times a day. He came to the eventual conclusion that he needed to lose his virginity with a man.
Naturally his attendence at church slackened off, he starts hitting the sauce, and began hanging around gay book shops trolling for local gay friendly bars.
He was still a sexual novice and wasn't quite sure where to start with any of it.
He made timid advances in private back rooms, in the dark with other men, and also spent some time engaging in more indecent exposure; he did this in particular another 6 times at least according to him.
He also engaged in frotterism- the pressing of one's groin against an unsuspecting and unconsenting victim in a crowded place.
Talk about the evolution of sexuality from self to mutual. His ideal partner was someone would allow himself to be held as an object.
One day he saw a mannequin in a Boston Store store window; it caught his eye, especially its torso.
Later that week, he stayed in the store and hid as they closed. He then went grabbed the mannequin and ran off with it.
He went through different fantasy scenarios with the mannequin, most of the ending in masturbation.
He never tried to penetrate the mannequin but was forced to get rid of it when his grandma started asking weird questions.
During that same time, Jeff's brother David came over to visit. David spent the night and him and Jeff had to share a bed.
Jeff tried to make moves on David- his own brother. Read quote from page 72.
Towards the close of 1985, Jeff would discover bath house AND a way to get the product/ body he was looking for.
The bathhouses were a trend that started in the 60's and 70's which could trace their orgins in Turkish baths earlier.
These clubs typically had coffee and tv lounges, saunas and pools, as well as jacuzzis.
The action happened upstairs. Cubicles line a long hallway and people would pair up sexually by walking into a cubicle and closing the door behind them.
Dahmer encountered other weirdos, not quite like himself but with their own fetishes. Dahmer recalls a man who wanted to suck on his feet. the man had no teeth so dahmer lay back and enjoyed the ride.
Most of his other pairings were much more rigourous which was not to Jeff's liking. He hated being the bottom, and although he enjoyed being top, what he really wanted was for his partner to keep lie still and let him enjoy himself. objects of pleasure quote. page 73.
The bathhouses only exacerbated Dahmer's issues; his selfish one sided sexual impulses were fostered here, which owuld lead towards his end goal of product killing.
Dahmer, in 1986, took steps to bring about his fantasy of a submitting, unmoving partner to life.
In June of that year, Dahmer went to doctor and requested a prescription for sleeping pills citing difficulty adjusting to his late night shift.
This wasn't true; Dahmer was using the pills on unsuspecting partners at the bath house, dosing them with 5 pills a man until they passed out.
Dahmer then had their bodies all to himself and could explore his fantasy world uninterrupted.
Dahmer didnt engage in penetrative sex, so oddly enough most of his partners didnt lodge much complaint.
His actions were reported to the bathhouse management but went uninterrupted until he misjudged the dosage one night while drugging an Asian out of towner.
The man was so conked out he didnt wake up for two days; he would end up spending a week in the hospital. The management of the bathhouses ONLY then revoked his membership, but didn't report him to the cops.
As a replacement for the bathhouse, Dahmer would rent a room in the Ambassador hotel and take men back there instead; luring and drugging 6 men this way.
Dahmer was normally incapable of attaining an erection, but when the men were comatose, he would be able to get hard and masturbate 3-4 times per encounter.
Other times he would snuggle with the men's sleeping bodies, laying his head on their chest to listen to them breath.
Dahmer during this time spent alot of time on Milwaukee's South 2nd street; in particular three clubs- Club 219, C'est La Vie and the Phoniex.
Club 219 was a popular dance and strip club and the Phoniex was your average downtown bar. At the phoniex, dahmer was known to sit in the same stool, rarely talking with others.
HE was polite but kept to himself, typically only talking briefly with better looking black men who happened to be in the bar. He started getting into conflicts with his grandma about his late nights and drinking.
He began to morph into what Shrine describes as hypersexuality- buying more and more porn, masterbating more and more, hungrier for tangible sexual encounters than ever before.
His fantasies didnt cut it anymore, this isnt unusual especially when one considers the manner in which he had been pulling reality into his fantasy life through the drugging of lovers.
The porn also held a significant importance to dahmer; it was a flat static thing- an object. Dahmer wanted that- but in real life. Dahmer began imagining time with a corpse; its hard to know how long the thought had been in his head, but he acted on it during this time;
dahmer tells when he tried to sneak into a cemetary to dig up a freshly buried boy. The ground was too frozen and he was to afraid of being out in the open and getting caught so he fled before he could get started with the act.
Another symptom of Dahmer's hypersexuality; in september of 1986, Dahmer went to a river bank and pulled down his pants and lifted his shirt; he proceeded to jack off in view of two young boys who began to heckle him.
He continuted, shouting at them that "he was having a great time". The boys went to the cops and reported him; he was subsequently arrested and charged with Lewd and Lacivious Behaviour and indecent exposure.
Dahmer was sentenced to one year's probation and counseling for sexual deviancy. Not much is notable from his time in counseling.
He resisted much of it- one element that is telling were the answers he marked true on his eval page 79. During his therapy he would frequently physically present his back to his Dr.
His doctors remarks from therapy are also interesting "page 83."
One of their therapy sessions would take place on the 16th of november 1987.
Dahmer would begin his slip into serial killing 4 days later. Her closing remarks i found to be super neat. page 84- ending with "SPOOKY"
On the 20th of novemeber, dahmer met a young blond haired 25 year old Steven Tuomi.
steve was newer in town and was working at a local diner George Webb's Resturant during the same graveyard shift as dahmer.
Steven had the night off and was leaving club 219 around the same time as jeff, hitting it off on the pavement just outside the club.
Dahmer offered to take steven back to his room at the ambassador hotel. It was around 2 or three in the evening.
The two went up to dahmer's room , drinking rum and coke out of glasses dahmer had specifically prepped with sleeping pills by taking the powder and lacing the cup intended for tuomi.
they undressed, kissed, mutually masturbated each other and cuddled to sleep. Then Dahmer woke up.
The first thing Dahmer realized upon waking up was that he was lying on top of Tuomi.
It then clicked that Tuomi was dead; his head was hanging off of the bed's edge; dahmer could also feel bones crunching under neath his weight as he shifted up.
steve's chest had been beaten in and ribs were exposed through the skin. Dahmer's own arms were black and blue with brusies.
Dahmer recalls page 85. He hid the body in the closet and spent the next 5 hours pacing back and forth smoking cigarettes trying to figure out what the hell to do.
Other details remained fuzzy; they had been drinking rum and coke, but where was the bottle of rum? Had he left the room? Thrown it out the window? The possibilities and the implications of the missing bottle would be on his mind long after he left the room.
The morning passed and afternoon came. Dahmer cleaned himself up and went out around 1pm; he headed to one of his daytime haunts- the Grand avenue mall.
He bought a large suitcase at Woolworths-- he picked the largest he could find.
He returned to the hotel, booking it for another night, took the suitcase up the stairs and set to work.
He stuffed steven's body into the suitcase, secured the room, and lugged it through the hotel. He hailed a cab and loaded the body into the cab back to his grandma's house.
Once home, he tucked the suticase in grandma's fruit cellar and went to his room to crash.
Keep in mind this is the 20th and 21st of November 1987. One thing complicated things; Dahmer's family was in town the next day and through Thanksgiving.
Steven's body had to stay in the fruit cellar for the week. Dahmer still went to work at the factory each night, planning for the weekend when he would have to set about disposing the body.
By the weekend thr family would have left the house, giving him the time needed to do the job properly.
He spent the weekend conducting the clean up; the in house setting made it difficult- on top of that dahmer hated the work describing it as "unpleasant and messy".
He removed the head, slit open the belly and proceeded to slice the flesh and meat into small pieces that could fit into plastic garbage bags.
The bones were wrapped in newspaper to prevent splinters from flying and were then smashed with a hammer.
The breakdown of the body was accomplished quickly- it took roughly two hours. Trash came on monday, and the bags were placed at the curb for pick up.
Dahmer kept the head for himself for another two weeks. He used soilex and bleach to take the flesh off and dahmer masturbated while looking at the skull.
The bleaching process had rendered the skull brittle and dahmer ultimatly smashed it too. Dahmer would come to perfect the bleaching process later on. No charges were ever brought since there was nothing left of steve to find.
This murder represented a turning point. Dahmer gave up his internal struggle to stay good.
His thought was that the murdering was part of who he was at his core- why fight it page 88.
The next man wouln't be so lucky. In the middle of that month, on the 17th, Jeff was was waiting at the bus stop outside club 219 when he met James Doxator.
It was around 30 degrees out-- James was a young native american man, trying his luck in the big city after leaving a difficult home behing.
He was wearing burgundy jeans that night with suspenders and a sweater. He had a golfer's cap on.
Dahmer approached James, offered him $50 to come home and spend the night at his place. Jeff was pleasant and james gladly went with him.
They snuck upstairs in his grandma's house where they kissed and fooled aronund; dahmer gave james head and for an unknown reason they went down to the basement after this.
I suspect Jeff had already formulated a plan to kill james when he met him. James had other plans; once down in the basement, James mentioned that he had to leave- it was around 4 AM.
Just like with hicks, dahmer saw a partner leaving him. he snapped. he mixed james a drink of baileys, coffee, and crushed sleeping pill. They made out some more, and James fell asleep on Dahmer's lap, feeling safe and secure.
Dahmer held him there, rubbing his hands on his back and shoulders for a while. He then got up, gently laid Jame's head down and queitly spead a sheet out on the floor.
Dahmer puts what happened next bluntly" page 94. He held his body until day broke, then hid him in the same fruit cellar.
He freshened up upstairs, ate breakfast with his grandma, who then went to church (it was a sunday). after she left, he went downstairs, fetched the body and snuggled more with it, culminating in fucking the body anally.
James remained in the fruit cellar for a week, with dahmer ignoring the problem and working at the factory as usual. After the fifth day, the odor was beginning to fill the house and grandma began to notice. Jeff blamed an overly full litter box.
That following sunday (7 days total from grave to disposal) dahmer repeated the process he had undergone with Tuomi.
He cut off the head for later use, and stripped the flesh off, emptying it and the crushed bone into garbage bags.
This time, Jeff took advantage of the built in drainage in the basement and hosed the blood from the process down the hole in the floor. Everything but the head was taken out with the trash on monday morning.
The head was boiled and bleached like before, kept as a mastubatory aid for two weeks. It too broke, but a seed of an idea was planted in dahmer's head. Dahmer envisioned a shrine or alter composed of skulls and bones. A monument and focal point for his secret worship.
His fantasies and urges were, by his own admission, in the drivers seat, and its needs were becoming more and more pressing. When the skull broke and was thrown away, all trace of Doxator, just like tuomi was gone- a victim to a mad man's fantasy.
He had looked seventeen when dahmer saw him- he was tall and handsome with wispy mustache. He had in fact been 14 upon his death
Dahmer was driven by this intense desire to posess good looking young men- he remembers the period living with his grandmother as one filled with relentless desire...not a common thing one says.
Two months after the killing of Doxator, Dahmer was back on the prowl.
What used to be disorganized lurking turned into a hunt with an established pattern; dahmer was hunting with his MO freshly solidified. Dahmer met one Richard Guerrero (23) outside the Phoniex on the 27th of March in 1988 around 2 AM.
Dahmer offered Richard 50$ to spend the rest of the evening with him to which Richard agreed. Dahmer had the taxi park at the Mai Kai Tavern- a polynsesian pop place (http://www.tikiroom.com/tikicentral/bb/viewtopic.php?topic=39976&forum=2&13) and he and Richard walked the last two blocks home.
Not sure how this didnt raise red flags. Grandma was asleep; Dahmer and Richard snuck upstairs and engaged in the same light sex that had become dahmer's routine. Two hours later, Dahmer made the move, prepared the sleeping draught and offered it to Richard.
///rich accepts, drinks it and feel asleep, nude in dahmer's arms. Dahmer strangled him and once the deed was done threw his arms around the body, hugging it tight.
Dahmer's murders, from this point on, would incude this distorted demonstration of "love"- this killing to keep you with me forever. Dahmer, according to him, did not enjoy the act of killing; it was the means to an end- that end being the onlykind of love he could really process .
Dahmer still had a few hours left with the fresh body so he snuggled with it some more and gave the body a blow job. Dahmer left the body in his bedroom, presumably in bed and did his usual breakfast with granny routine.
Dahmer now understood that the 2-3 hour period that grandma was out of the house during was his optimal dismemberment period, so he set to work; richard had only been dead for maybe 6 hours at this point.
His remains were loaded in the trash but the skull was kept. He held onto to richard's skull for months to come, having finally found a way to keep the skulls preserved for longer periods using a diluted bleach mixture.
The following weekend was Easter weekend, and Dahmer wasn't going to let any time go to waste. He dropped by CLub 219 and met a man by the name Ronald Flowers.
Ron lived about an hour away in Racine, WI but would visit the club about 2-3 times a week. He had originally decided not to go out, because he was waiting at his house for a furniture delivery, but when the delivery didn't come...he decided to head to milwaukee to go clubbing.
He met his friends at the club, enjoying the evening, then their group left the club and walked out to their cars. They all pulled out and drove off, but Flowers walked over to his 1978 oldsmobile regency and couldnt get the car to start.
He tried a few more times and realized the battery was dead. Ronald was stuck here for the night. Flowers walked back to the club, and stood in lien to use the pay phone outside- he made a few calls but couldnt get any help. After he couldnt get any help that way, Dahmer walked up to him. Dahmer heard Flowers out, and offered to help him.
Dahmer's suggestion was to take a cab with him back to his house, pick up jeff's car and drive back with it to jump start ronald's car. Jeff didnt actually have a car, but then again, dahmer wasn't trying to play mechanic here.
Flowers had only had one drink that night, so he was still pretty sharp, and when talking with dahmer, and riding with him in the taxi, ronald noticed a few things about jeff.
For starters, Jeff wouldnt really look him in the eye- he also spoke morosely about how much he hated his work, family, and overall life. Flowers thought dahmer was depressing and a bit of a boring dude- he kept along with dahmer, primarily as a means to the end. The got out of the taxi, like dahmer was used to, two blocks away.
Flowers asked him about this, and jeff mentioned hed didnt want to wake his grandma with headlights and slamming doors. Flowers also noticed the lack of a car in dahmer's driveway.
Jeff's grandma heard them come in and asked if it was jeff; jeff replied yes and that he was going to make a coffee; he didnt mention his guest. Flower's alarm bells kept going off the longer he was in jeff's kitchen ; for one dahmer was visibly shaking, presumably from nerves.
Flowers was wracking his mind on how to get out of the situation when...he fell asleep. HE woke up two days later in a hospital; cops told him he had been found in a field. There was no sign of any drugs in his system and no sign of sexual assault, but his jewlery was gone and his cash he had on him was missing too. ($200).
His brother picked him up and he went home. Back at his house, Flowers noticed two new things. There were brusie marks around his neck and his underwear were on him, but inside out. Flowers went so far as to lodge a complaint with the police and was able to successfully point the cops to his house. Dahmer was interviewed by the cops on april 5th, but since the situation was he said he said, the cops dropped the investigation.
The flowers incident was damning because it showed dahmer did have some degree of control; he clearly tried to strangle flowers, but was able to stop before he killed him.
dahmer must have struggled with the whole scenatio- it was out of his MO and his grandma being awake was a variable that may have saved flower's life. Three months later, Flowers was back at the club and was able to recognize dahmer, apparently because he had the same "grubby" hush puppy shoes on he had worn last time.
Flower's asked if he dahmer remembered him- dahmer says he didnt but invited him back to his house for coffee. Flower's loses it, screaming YOU KNOW WHO THE FUCK I AM, lunging to attack dahmer. Flower's friends held him back. Later on outside the club, dahmer was getting into a cab with a handsome looking black man, when Flowers spotted the two of them and screamed "DONT GO WITH HIM, HES FUCKING CRAZY". Dahmer prospective companion backed out of the cab ride with Jeff, and all parties left and went their seperate ways into the night.
The Flower's affair ultimatley resulted in Dahmer's family deciding he needed to move out of grandma's house. Grandma herself didnt like his drinking habits, and was suspicious of all of dahmer's guests he had over. The desicion was reached via intervention style conference; the family members present also decided that jeff needed to seek counseling for excessive drinking.
On the 26th of April, Dahmer started counselinf with Dr. Bleadorn- the sessions only lasted 4 weeks- and dahmer's mind was elsewhere...primarily on the new star wars VHS RETURN OF THE JEDI. jeff was obsessed with the movie and was particulalry focused on the all powerful emporer. He even went out and bought yellow contact lenses.
In June, Dahmer moved into a new apartment at 808 north 24th street and stocked up on some more sleeping pills. he also brought richard Guerrero's skull with him.
At work, Dahmer seemed totally normal. His job performance reports were glowing for 4 years with one reading page. 99. Some coworkers thought he seemed stressed, while others cited his habit of falling asleep at the job. His time at his job was overall uneventful until his arrest in September of 1988.
Here's what happened around his arrest- on Monday the 26th, a student from a local art school was walking home when he felt a presence behind him.
The boy, Somsack Sinthasomphone, was a Laotian immigrant, was thoroughly americanized and was from a large family.
Dahmer approached the boy and struck up a conversation with him. He mentioned he had just picked up a new camera and wanted to give it a spin; would somsack take $50 to go with dahmer and help him out?
The boy was clever enough to ask dahmer straight up if it required him taking his clothes off...dahmer brushed that off saying itdidnt really mtter, and it was just for his personal hobby use.
Somsack decided to go- he thought dahmer was nice and followed him a block down to dahmer's place. Dahmer immediately jumped into it, asking somsack to pose for him and then take off his shirt, since it would make for better photos. somsack was reluctant but complied.
dahmer then made the two of them some coffee, and as somsack sipped it, dahmer had him take more photos, this time with the zipper of his pants down. Dahmer took some photos then straight up pulled his pants down trying to grab somsacks business. Somsack stopped him and started to leave. Dahmer asked him for a favor before he left...would he sit next to jeff for a moment or two?
somsack deicded to do that for a few minutes; then jeff asked if he could listen to his stomach. He placed his head on somack's stomach and began to kiss and lick him on his stomach. Somsack, jumped up, grabbed his backpack and ran out to the door; dahmer called out to him- dont forget your 50$ and dont tell anyone...
Somsack started running to his house but began to feel tired and disoriented. he got to his house finally but couldn't stand when arrived.
His father lied him down and when he couldn't wake him after two hours, decided to take him to a hospital. The hopsital got it right this time citing a drug overdose was involved.
cops were brought in and interviewed somsack for three hours. from 7:30 to 10:30 that night. He was able to point out the apartment and the cops were then able to track dahmer down at work.
jeff was arrested at work (which he felt was embarrassing) and was charged with second degree sexual assault and enticing a child for immoral purposes.
Dahmer felt his privacy had been violated and was angry since now everyone at work knew he was a homosexual.
Jeff spent 6 days in jail, and cops searched his apartment.
They found sleeping pills, his camera and photos of somsack, as well as some male porn. What they did not find was richard guerrerro' skull.
Lionel also found out about his son's sexuality during that time. He supposedly took it well, despite maintaining a christian stance on the matter of homosexuality. During court ordered psych evals, dahmer opened up more than he ever did in those settings, admiting he was anxious, tense and depressed.
he also mentioned he had deep feelings of alienation. The doctor concluded that dahmer was "very pscholigcally damaged" and " there is not question that mr. dahmer is in need of longterm psychological treatment. A second opinion was asked for and provided.
page 103.
Dahmer pled no contest, stating he didnt realize the reisdue was in the cup and that he didnt know somsack was only 13-
his sentencing was in january of 1989. Dahmer was ultimalty sentenced to a year in jail, but was allowed to be out on work release, reporting to work at the chocolate factory during the day, and jail at night.
Dahmer wrote a letter asking for a modificiation of sentence. Lionel too wrote letter but it was very much different, page 104.
In january of 1989, dahmer was found guilty, but the judge decided to wait a few months before sentencing to allow himself some time to review dahmer's psych reports.
Dahmer would take advantage of this reprieve as best he could. His compulsion was getting worse and worse, to the point where described it as painful.
On the 20th of march, with his time in jail coming up, dahmer took a 10 day vacation that coincided with the easter holiday.
he moved out of his apartment and moved back in with grandma, since he wouldnt be able to pay rent in jail. On Easter Saturday, he got the itch and got ready to get back to hunting.
He had his perscription of sleeping pills filled, and went out.
that evening he didnt talk to anyone throughout the evening, making the rounds at the bars on 2nd street.
He made a last stop at a club called La Cage (2nd & national). He still hadnt talked to anyone, and was about to leave when a handsome looking black man came up and started talking to jeff.
This was a first; The man's name was Anthony Sears. He was 21 years old, wearing a v neck sweater with a white tee underneath and trendy blue jeans and white sneakers.
Tony was there with his frend, Jeff Connor who was talking with someone else.
Tony asks Jeff is he has any coke to which jeff replies, he had that and some rum as well, thinking a rum and coke. Tony laughed and explained he meant cocaine; Tony was addicited to cocaine, and dahmer sensing that weakness instead offered to spend the night with him.
Tony eagerly agreed, seeming excited for the night to come. Jeff Connor offered to be a good wingman and drive them to wherever dahmer had in mind- dahmer mentioned he was visiting from chicago and was staying with his grandma while he was in town ( a lie).
Connor drove the pair, with dahmer and sear being in the back seat. sears was so ready to go, he started giving dahmer head in the back seat. Connor knew what was happening, but seemed more bothered by the weird feeling dahmer gave him.
When they arrived home, Dahmer got out first and walked across the street; connor mentioned he didnt feel right about jeff, but sears told connors he'd call him a few hours and he'd be fine. Sears then snuck into bed with dahmer, where jeff gave him head this time.
They lay in bed snuggling for a bit and dahmer asked if he could see him again. Tony mentioned he had to leave and probably wouldn't return-
you can guess what happened next. Dahmer went downstairs made his sleeping pill in a coffee drink, and served it to sears. 30 mintues later, and tony was out; dahmer did his usual routing of kissing and hugging until he worked up the nerve and strangled him.
Grandma woke up, they did breakfast, and the day being Easter, dahmer knew grandma would be out longer than usual.
He would have almost 4 hours with tony's body. Dahmer went back upstairs after she left, and did the usual desecration, including true necrophilia this time.
Dahmer tried something different this time; he dragged the body to the tub, and attempted to flay him- that being the removal of all of his skin. He then went back to his usual, removing he head, breaking down the flesh and breaking the bones apart. the one other notable deviation he made, was removing anthony's genitals. Dahmer's reasoning was he "like(d) him especially well"".
Dahmer took the trophies he had collected and his them in his room; he later consulted with a taxidermist on the best way to keep flesh preserved--acetone was recommeneded so dahmer bout a 10 gallon bucket of the stuff and put the head and genitals in there.
He also bought makeup to use to help pretty up the genitals. The acetone worked fairly well, allowing dahmer to keep the macabre trophies for later mastubatory use.
He also used the head for other just nasty purposes. you can guess where that leads. Once the head no longer lent itself to that kind of behaviour, dahmer would scalp the head and heep tony's ponyailed scalp as a long term trophy.
Jeff connor was naturally concerned and went looking for him, enlisting police aid. The cops now had a detailed description and a missing person- a first in dahmer's current history of offense.
Nothing came of it, and enventually dahmer's time came to enter jail. He bought a large metal samsonite cosmetic's case and loaded tony's now mummified head and genitals into it, storing it at work for safekeeping.
When he would leave prison he would be changed- more desperate more unhinged- ready to engage in the closing scenes in his grisly tragedy
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2019.07.14 01:17 TheSNootBoot [18][M] Dreaming of Adventure

Your character is just an average high school student who dreams of being whisked away to a fantasy world and becoming a famous hero, fight monsters, and get the cute girls.
One night, though, they fall asleep only to wake up in a strange new world, a fantasy world full of magic, monsters, and tons of cute girls. Confused, on their own, and completely broke, they will have to collect more information about who they are, why they are there, and whe brought them there. The only catch is, after seven days of living in the new fantasy world, they wake back up at home, safe and sound. What they find upon waking up is proof of being in the fantasy world. Cuts and injuries appear on their real world body. When they next fall asleep, they are put back where they left off for a week.
This story I want to try to do will be like a duel plot roleplay, Slice of Life and Fantasy all in one. A big plot and a minor side plot, one in each world. I can go into more detail once I have found a suitable partner, but I would also like to keep it sort of vague so you and your character can explore this world on their own without any future knowledge.
When it comes to posting, I would like someone who has quite a bit of free time and can answer very frequently. Im talking every few mintues, or maybe just once or twice an hour. This also means I am used to real short replies, sometimes even 1 to 2 lines, since we will be answering so fast anyway. This is supposed to be pretty casual, but I still require at least some effort.
I will be DMing for the roleplay, so it might be more like a DnD campaign in a sense that I will be acting as a narrator of sorts and showing you, your character, and any side characters they meet around. Of course there will also be a romance, maybe one for each world, depending on how detailed you want the subplot to be. I can do FxF, FxM, or maybe even MxM. I live in CDT so I would like someone with a simular time zone, of course.
I use discord mainly, Telegram being my secondary messenger app. If you have further questions or concerns, or simply just need my discord, dm me and I will answer as soon as I can!
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2019.07.03 01:27 Vulcan003 Crossover story with a depressed pink boy(Part I)


We slowly made our way forward, our feet were the only sound echoing in this deserted area. Me and my partner were slowly making our way to find a place where we could be useful.

u/LordVucic: Remember guys, who are we?

u/lucklesslilith: The Army in Pink!

LordVucic: What are we doing here?

u/heroaybars13: We are here to save the humans in need!

Vulcan: ...

LordVucic: What's the matter Vulcan? We must be as happy as possible, we don't want to scare everyone!

Vulcan: Seriously, are you listening to yourself?

I coldly asked that and everyone stopped to look at me and I took that momentum to continue.

Vulcan: Look at us! We are supposed to be soldiers yet our whole equipements are pink along with our weapons, we look like a bunch of gay people!

lucklesslilith: Is that a bad thing?

heroaybars13: I think we must show him that we can help the people still alive in this world!

Vulcan: Back off! I'm sick of working with you guys!

I removed the safety of my weapon and pointed them with it, ready to kill someone. I stepped away and remained in shooting position just in they case they tried to surprise me.

Vulcan: You go to this supposed facility, I'm not going! The depressed soldier isn't paid enough for this shit!

They looked at each other and turned around, determined to find that facility where humans were working. I turned around and saw another soldier standing near me.

u/TeeQueueW: Where are we going?

Vulcan: ...

I pointed the rest of the squad to the pink soldier and he ran off in order to join them.

Vulcan: This world is going to die anyway, why should we keep fighting?

I turned around and stepped without looking and I fell off a pile of rubbles but instead of hitting the floor, I went through it.

...

I opened my eyes and saw that I was in the middle of a forest. I slowly sat down and looked around me, just to be sure I had all my equipements.

Vulcan: Sniper, ammo, armor and the military equipement... I should be good.

I stood up and walked for a bit. I was trained to walk long distances so I wasn't afraid of getting tired. I finally made it out of the forest and saw a huge mountain leading up in the sky. I made a quick check of my surroundings and the lack of destroyed buildings and black/grey clouds in the sky, leaving only a perfect blue color.

Vulcan: ...

I walked around a little more and stumbled upon a bunch of little girls flying around, wings on their backs. The more I walked around, the more I was getting the impression that it was just one big dream and that I lost consciousness when I landed on the ground. I continued until I arrived in front of a forest entirely made of gigantic bamboos.

Vulcan: Whatever...

I entered that forest and felt like an eternity until I arrived in front of a house in the middle of nowhere. I tried to get closer but a woman with bunny ears blocked my way, her red eyes fixated on me.

???: What business do you have here?

Vulcan's mind: I guess I'll go with what I learned during my training.

I stood still and gave her a military salute before giving her a fake smile.

Vulcan: We are here to fill the humans with hope by providing support! We are the Army in Pink, ready for the safety of Mankind! Our sole goal is make human's lives as easy as possible by protecting them!

???: ...

She raised one of her eyebrows at my speech and asked me one question.

???: You are here to protect humans? Also, are you wearing a pink armor?

Vulcan: The color of the human heart is pink! By wearing the same color, we can blend into the people's mind!

???: This more suspicious than anything...

Vulcan: *Sigh\* I know it's completely retarded but just deal with it, I'm stuck wearing this anyway.

???: Stay here, I'm gonna have a word with the princess.

She walked inside the house and I took that moment to sit down and whisper to myself in the meantime.

Vulcan: Ils croyaient dans l'espoir de l'humanité mais rien ne vas changer à la fin. (They believed in the hope of humanity yet nothing will change in the end. Yes, this is french, I guess I'm teaching you some words too.)

I waited for around 30 mintues when the girl came back and asked me to follow her inside. I grabbed my weapon and did so, starting my adventure.

(So, how do you like that? Someone got the crossover?)
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2019.01.07 04:31 throwmeaway_sigh ME 30M Wife 33F - Help moving communicating, and keeping a positive attitude

I am sorry for the brain dump below. I've been having daydreams of just going on facebook and typing "Help"
My wife and I have been together for about 5 years, and only recently married. I love her, and we are both the kind of people who like to question norms. Societal paradigms, Habbits, goals, purpose. We wonder about it all, and sometimes each get a little frustrated with life in general. A little seasonal depression too. However, this isn't the issue. We keep fighting lately, and I have a really hard time figuring out if it is my fault or how to get past it. Thoughts of "Are we really meant to be together" come up every once in a while and I try to write them off. It gets hard when it seems like I can not do anything right. I know I'm not perfect. For the main recent incident just go ahead and read "Communication"and the example underneath it.

Here's a few flaws that seem to affect us. I like to think that I work hard to minimize my flaws and reduce the effect on the relationship, but I don't feel like the same can be said on the other side.


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2018.11.10 06:53 erinlovelive00009 My boyfriend has dick... issues

Ok my boyfriend and i have sex and one thing that I notice and have talked to him about is precum. My boyfriend doesn't really precum and sometimes when we have sex his actual amount of ejaculate is not a lot. He said that he's always been like that and that when him and his ex wife tried to conceive, he couldn't get her pregnant. I also mentioned how when I've had sex with previous partners, a lot of them could keep going. Like we'd finish one sex session and then start another not too long later. My current boyfriend needs 20 mintues and there's no guarantee he will stay hard after 1st session. The crazy part is I told him about this and he said, "wait other guys can just keep going?" And i was like yeah. He said that only in rare circumstances with women in general would he be able to not space out sex sessions. I do know my boyfriend used to have addiction issues to cocaine etc, do you think this has an affect?
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2018.09.23 03:19 Sephiroth146 TF2 Steam Admin Scammer

I immediately knew this person was a scammer when my "no longer friend" came to me about how he accidentally reported me for dupped items in tf2. I needed to contact this supposed Steam Admin, Lifa about checking these items. I decided to play dumb with this guy and waste this person's time. If you're unsure whether someone is a verified admin or not, copy their profile URL and put it in this website to check https://steamrep.com/.

𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Good day.
[7:49 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
hey i was sent by \*\*\*\*\*\* about you banning someone not entirely sure, wasn't explained very well he just wanted me to reach out to you 
[7:51 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Note this is not a duplicated or bugged items in the community market or in a trading website but there is a random user that reported you that's why I am here to check and clarify if the said issue is true or false accusation is that clear? 
[7:51 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
ok, well i dont dupe items. how do i prove so? 
[7:51 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Kindly exit your game. Only online. 
[7:52 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
alright well im playing with a friend. what exactly was i banned from anyways 
[7:52 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
You cant play any games and trading after 2038. 
[7:53 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
Like any steam game? 
[7:53 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Yes. May I request you to exit your game now. 
[7:54 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
are you a steam official or something 
[7:54 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Steam admin. 
[7:55 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
Alright I'll exit soon. Could you describe what I'll need to do 
[7:55 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Now.. 
[7:56 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
Alright, now what Btw, how do i see how long i have to play steam games? 
[7:57 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Hold on. [https://steamusercontent-a.akamaihd.net/ugc/964224088532035782/EA45DDFB0C43E70C0B8BCA34F3DD3EEF74C35475/](https://steamusercontent-a.akamaihd.net/ugc/964224088532035782/EA45DDFB0C43E70C0B8BCA34F3DD3EEF74C35475/) The process of clarifying takes 2-3 minutes so are you going to proceed or you will take the banned? 
[7:59 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
Ok, I'm not seeing any pending bans 
[7:59 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Yes. Only admin can see it. Just answer my question now.\\ 
[7:59 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
Ok, so what do i need to do? 
[8:00 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
All you need to do here is to make an appeal and prove that your item is in a good condition and it was a false accusation so the bot will cancel the pending ban in your account is that clear? 
[8:01 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
Alright, where is this bot? 
[8:02 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Items involved: All taunts quality items. 
[8:02 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
But my taunts work. I don't think that they're dupped There's gotta be a less complicated way to check, i mean How do i see if they're broken or not myself? 
[8:03 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
May you please send the reported item(s) [https://steamcommunity.com/tradeoffenew/?partner=896145433&token=gMXgRfuz](https://steamcommunity.com/tradeoffenew/?partner=896145433&token=gMXgRfuz) here on our program for the verification process: Noted: You will get it back after 1-3 minutes. 
[8:04 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
But what is the reported item? Is it my taunt? 
[8:04 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
I only give you 5 minutes to comply 
[8:04 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
Because it works. It's not broken 
[8:04 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
All taunts. 
[8:04 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
But they all work. You know what doesn't work? The degreaser is very underpowered. Since you're a steam official and all, maybe convince the TF team to fix it? Or maybe You're not [https://steamrep.com/search?q=https%3A%2F%2Fsteamcommunity.com%2Fid%2FLifa-Service%2Fbadges](https://steamrep.com/search?q=https%3A%2F%2Fsteamcommunity.com%2Fid%2FLifa-Service%2Fbadges) 
[8:05 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
4 mintues. 
[8:05 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
Not an admin 
[8:05 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
I have already give you my proof here. 
[8:06 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
May i see it? 
[8:06 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Badge is not allowed from Steam checking service to prevent errors on the program. 
[8:06 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
I can't find it 
[8:06 PM]
𝐋 𝐈 𝐅 𝐀:
Check the video. 
[8:06 PM]
Just Dimma Don't:
There has been a scam going around of people acting like steam/tf2 moderators You don't need a bot to check for dupped items Btw, 2 minutes ya dimmadumbass. 
Watch out for scammers guys.
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2018.09.03 08:38 itsoverformesrry Hi Reddit,This will be my last post on reddit and any other social media

hi /SuicideWatch first of all i think its important to say that all of you tried to help me and i saw alot of posts about how you succesfuly helped a person and you did,but i failed you i failed /SuicideWatch and the people of reddit,forgive me guys for the shame i brought you and please pray that god or allah or allyihum forgive me for what i did so my story goes like this (i hope you are still reading) in junior school i used to be really good in school till my senior year this year destroyed me literally from bullying by my classmates (including my crush who would make fun of me in daily basis cause i were shy to speak to girls,some people blame for this but i tried and im introvert as fuck) this year destryoed my self esteem and how i think of myself then i went to highschool and became this introvert kid who wont talk to anyone (even boys) unless they started the conv,for 3 years i didn't make a friend,and then after highschool life began to be even worse,i failed the theory driving test 3 times till i passed (all of my family passed it from the first time) and then in the job i got i even got bullied by my mates in work and even the manger made fun of me(behind my back,didn't think it was worth reporting to HR) this 1 year passed as the longest year in my life,or at least that's how it felt then i went to college and this year was the year that led me to kill myself (hopefully i dont fail at this) i chose something that i dont think love alot ,but i hate the least,and as i have mentioned before i am an introvert so it was really hard at this major to make friends like seriously hard,first semester weren't that bad i passed all of my exam without effort almost ( i didn't go to all of the lecs neither to the homework solveing problem yet i did average ) but second semester was "the straw that broke the camel back" so in this semester i were kinda fored to do all of my lab alone,even the one that requires partner i used to stay 30 mintue late doing them alone which terribly sucked for me,and made me even more depressed and second month into april i used to see my classmates laugh on me (like they would laugh and look at me and pretend to laugh) i hated my life so much that i wish i didn't exist i havent done a single exam this semester and my parents think i did them all and used to go to lecutres how on earth will i explain what i did? what the fuck have i done? i want to die i decided to tell my father im going to the sea and then just drown myself there ( i know it hurts but i deserve the pain for what i have done to them and they wont think i have done it on purpose ) thanks reddit goodbye cruel world
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2018.09.03 08:28 itsoverformesrry Hi Reddit,This will be my last post on reddit and any other social media

hi /depression first of all i think its important to say that all of you tried to help me and i saw alot of posts about how you succesfuly helped a person and you did,but i failed you i failed /depression and the people of reddit,forgive me guys for the shame i brought you and please pray that god or allah or allyihum forgive me for what i did
so my story goes like this (i hope you are still reading) in junior school i used to be really good in school till my senior year this year destroyed me literally from bullying by my classmates (including my crush who would make fun of me in daily basis cause i were shy to speak to girls,some people blame for this but i tried and im introvert as fuck) this year destryoed my self esteem and how i think of myself then i went to highschool and became this introvert kid who wont talk to anyone (even boys) unless they started the conv,for 3 years i didn't make a friend,and then after highschool life began to be even worse,i failed the theory driving test 3 times till i passed (all of my family passed it from the first time) and then in the job i got i even got bullied by my mates in work and even the manger made fun of me(behind my back,didn't think it was worth reporting to HR) this 1 year passed as the longest year in my life,or at least that's how it felt then i went to college and this year was the year that led me to kill myself (hopefully i dont fail at this) i chose something that i dont think love alot ,but i hate the least,and as i have mentioned before i am an introvert so it was really hard at this major to make friends like seriously hard,first semester weren't that bad i passed all of my exam without effort almost ( i didn't go to all of the lecs neither to the homework solveing problem yet i did average ) but second semester was "the straw that broke the camel back" so in this semester i were kinda fored to do all of my lab alone,even the one that requires partner i used to stay 30 mintue late doing them alone which terribly sucked for me,and made me even more depressed and second month into april i used to see my classmates laugh on me (like they would laugh and look at me and pretend to laugh) i hated my life so much that i wish i didn't exist i havent done a single exam this semester and my parents think i did them all and used to go to lecutres how on earth will i explain what i did? what the fuck have i done? i want to die i decided to tell my father im going to the sea and then just drown myself there ( i know it hurts but i deserve the pain for what i have done to them and they wont think i have done it on purpose ) thanks reddit goodbye cruel world
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